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Well, we've had a good run...

2008-02-01T03:24:00.000-05:00

Note: cross-posted from my main blog for the benefit of you folks (hi, Adam!) who mostly come here.

Over the past year and a half, I've maintained a pretty clear distinction between my two main blogs: while this blog is devoted to non-film writing, I've maintained Silly Hats Only for my film-related work. But lately I've become more uneasy with the idea of separating the two, as the film stuff and non-film stuff are but two sides of the same coin. As a way of acknowledging this, I've finally decided to post both my film and non-film writings on my principal blog from now on. After all, as Terence wrote, "I am a human being, so nothing human is alien to me."

I'll be keeping this blog open in case you ever want to re-read my older stuff, but don't expect any new content here, so change your blog rolls accordingly.

The quiet man in the easy chair

2008-01-30T14:47:00.000-05:00

I was in middle school when my mom first told me about meeting my Grandpa Clark for the first time. She remembered my dad taking her to his parents' house, and she noticed my grandfather sitting alone in the living room, doing nothing in particular. According to her, even after she was introduced to him, he didn't talk too much. He wasn't unpleasant to her by any means, but he just didn't have a whole lot to say to her, or to anyone else. I remember her saying that she worried a little about him- not because she thought something was amiss, but because she didn't quite understand his reluctance to talk.

Back then, the picture she painted was a sharp contrast to my personal image of him. When I was growing up, he was always cheerful and friendly, always happy to play games or tell jokes or funny stories to us when we visited. He was the sort of grandpa who would always remember my teachers' names, even after I had moved on from their classes, and who would always try to keep tabs on what I was up to in school and in my life. One of my earliest memories of him was when he spent an afternoon with me while my parents attended the wedding of my mom's brother. Normally I would have felt left out, but because I got to spend the day with him I didn't mind.

But as the years passed, I began to see what my mom was talking about. While he livened up when children were around, he was much quieter around adults. I began to see him and my grandmother more infrequently, due in no small part to my allergies that would be set off by the cats they always kept around the house, but at the same time he was just getting harder to talk to as I got older. However, in recent years I began to realize that I was becoming quite a bit like him, and I became much more sympathetic to how he was. I don't think there was anything wrong with him at all- I just think that he was a little more reserved than most, and more reluctant to butt into a conversation he thought didn't particularly concern him. It was just his way, as people used to put it. Maybe being one of nine children having to compete for attention, he simply relished the chance to keep to himself.

Yet at the same time I missed the Grandpa I grew up with. I think that he felt like he could open up to children because he was able to let his guard down with them in a way he couldn't with adults, and I still remember the glimmer in his eye whenever we would come over to visit. In the past few years, as I began to approach parenting age, I always hoped that I might eventually take my own children to visit him, so that they might catch a glimpse of the same Grandpa who was so important to my own childhood.

Sadly, that wasn't to be. My Grandpa Clark died this morning at age 92 in the hospital, where he had been since checking in with pneumonia this past Friday. He hadn't been well for some years- he was prone to falling asleep in mid-conversation, and he required a walker to help him get around- but that doesn't make it any easier. He was exactly two weeks shy of his birthday, which was the day after mine. This news still hasn't really hit me hard, and I fear that it really won't until my own birthday hits and for the first time in my life I won't have his to look forward to on the following day.

It's time to light the lights

2007-12-26T00:06:00.000-05:00

How was your holiday? My Christmas went well. Saw the family, got what I asked for, and all that. And the weather was even good for driving home. My troubles didn't actually begin until after I drove back to Columbus this evening. Pulling into the parking lot around 11, I unloaded the car, surveyed the scene, and decided to hit the grocery store to pick up a few things. Nothing fancy, just milk, cereal, orange juice, and iceberg lettuce for my guinea pigs. I know what you're thinking- aren't the supermarkets closed on Christmas night? Well, I wasn't so sure. After all, movie theatres are open all day on Christmas, and last I checked food was still more of a necessity than movies, even for someone like me.

So I got back into the car and drove to the local Kroger. Everything looked OK, with the store and parking lot brightly lit, and even a few cars in the parking lot. But when I tried to enter, none of the automatic doors would open for me. Somewhat annoyed, I drove to the Giant Eagle a few blocks away, with the same result. I was getting a little pissed off at this point, but I tried to figure out my options. I could go out for breakfast, thus rendering the milk, cereal, and OJ unnecessary at this point. All I really needed was the lettuce. So I passed a Wendy's, and hit upon the idea of ordering a couple of sandwiches with extra lettuce. Alas, also closed.

On the way home, a thought occurred to me. Every place I'd stopped had been closed, yet their signs had been lit. Now, I don't know about you, but whenever I see that a business' sign is lit up, I'm inclined to believe that they're open for business. In fact, this isn't an idea I pulled from thin air- back when I was working fast food in high school, the managers were sticklers about the sign. The last thing we did in the morning before unlocking the doors was to light the sign, and the first thing we did after locking up at the end of the day was to turn it off. Makes sense to me, but obviously not to some people who run local establishments that carry lettuce and are generally open late.

Now, I understand the need to keep your business illuminated. Nobody likes to walk around at night, and even less so when you're walking by a darkened property. But the sign is a different story. A lighted sign doesn't illuminate its surroundings. Its sole purpose is to advertise the business to passerby. If the business is closed, there's no need to light the sign. Is the wasted electricity worth pissing off would-be patrons? I don't think so.

To each his own Christmas

2007-12-24T13:32:00.000-05:00

During my freshman year of high school, my parents had the idea for us to forego the usual Christmas with the family to celebrate the holiday with some family friends in Florida. It sounded like a fun wrinkle on the holidays, not least because we could enjoy warm sun instead of snow on Christmas Day, something we'd never really experienced before. For the first few days in Florida, we had a good time, but all this changed once Christmas morning rolled around. What my parents hadn't taken into account was how much more extravagant their friends' idea of Christmas was than theirs. At our house, we always gave gifts, but this was usually limited to five or six per person. So when I awoke and saw the wall of presents that greeted the children who lived there, I knew this was a whole different ballgame. So after me and my family finished with our gifts, we politely sat and watched everyone else open theirs- for nearly two hours. Frankly, I was pretty miserable. I was old enough to understand that my parents didn't love me less than their parents loved their kids simply because I received less presents, but I felt extremely uncomfortable, like I was intruding on someone else's holiday. At that point I made the fairly conclusive discovery that everyone Christmas is different. It was around that same time, I think, that my parents decided to henceforth go back to celebrating Christmas in snowy Ohio.

Out of the entire year, the holidays are the time that's most bound to family tradition. So much goes on in our lives that we can't control that it's a comfort to be able to gather as a family and experience the holidays in pretty much the same way we have in years past. We bust out the old recipes, cue up the Christmas albums, and hang the same ornaments on the tree that we've always hung, plus the new ones we received last year. There's something comforting in that consistency, the knowledge that this Christmas is going to be the same as last Christmas, and that next Christmas will be the same as well. This also goes for Thanksgiving, as I learned the hard way the year I decided to bring some of my homemade applesauce to Thanksgiving dinner. Most of the family eyeballed my unfamiliar contribution quizzically, like I somehow willfully decided to mess with something that didn't need fixed, and I ended up taking most of it home with me. I haven't brought it since.

But no breaking of Christmas tradition was quite as drastic as when I wasn't able to come home for the holidays. For several years, I worked at a movie theatre that was open 365 days a year, and all staff members had the option of taking off either Thanksgiving or Christmas. In my family, Christmas has always been spread out over a number of days while Thanksgiving is one day only, so I decided to work on Christmas. But while the theatre needed the help, and they paid time and a half and paid us for working Christmas, something just felt wrong about not spending the holidays with my family. To comfort myself, I would always take in a movie, but doing this just served to underline that I was by myself on this most family-oriented of days. If nothing else, this has given me a greater appreciation for the holidays, especially my family's one-of-a-kind version of it.

Happy holidays to all of you, and to your families.

"Because Mad Cow Disease was already taken."

2007-11-20T23:10:00.000-05:00

Case you were wondering, I'm still at the bank, still doing what I was doing before. It's not so bad, I guess. I won't do it forever, but it's mostly harmless.

Anyway, when I'm processing checks at the end of the day, I have a tendency to hum songs to myself. Most of the time the machine is loud enough that nobody notices the songs, and the music I like doesn't really appeal to most of my workmates, who tend to go in more for country. But anyway, lately I've been on something of an Elton John kick, and some of his stuff has snuck into my recent humming repertoire. Today, it was a few selections from Tumbleweed Connection, one of which actually got recognized, much to my surprise. And of course, her recognition necessitated a funny response. Because that's just the kind of guy I am. To wit:

Female coworker: "Hey, is that 'My Father's Gun'?"

Me: "I dunno... did he put his name on it?"

I'm here all week, folks.

Snack time, anytime.

2007-11-18T22:10:00.001-05:00

The other night, I was feeling a bit peckish after catching a movie, so I ducked into a sub shop that stayed open late. There were no customers in the store and only one guy behind the counter, so he engaged me in a little friendly conversation.

"Nothing like a sandwich, right?... Man, I could eat a sandwich anytime... I could've just had something to eat, and if someone said 'hey man, you want a sandwich?' I'd probably say yes. Know what I'm talking about?"

First off- now THIS is how you converse with a customer. Of course, it helps if you're a genial guy in the first place, but still, this is how it's done. Since it was a sandwich shop, tips weren't expected, so I doubt he was angling for one. Instead, he just wanted to be friendly, while still respecting the boundaries inherent in the customer/employee relationship. As you might have guessed, I appreciated it.

But his statement got me thinking- what sort of food could I eat anytime? I'm not talking about rich, fancy dishes that require lots of preparation so you only eat them when you're dining out. I'm talking about the food you reach for when you're at home and you're not necessarily starving but you just want a quick and easy snack. Like cereal for Seinfeld or that old lady who eats Stella D'oro Breakfast Treats at midnight in the old commercial.

Me, I'm partial to toast. Doesn't need to be all dolled up with fancy preserves or anything- a smear of butter will suffice. But toast just hits the spot anytime, anywhere. I wonder if it has anything to do with a subconscious connection I've made between toast and feeling better, since whenever I was sick as a child the first thing I'd try to eat would be toast. But trying to pair up childhood causes with adult effects doesn't matter here, just what tastes good to me. Rye is my toast of choice, but really, any toast'll do.

What about you folks? What's your default anytime comfort food?

Road tripping

2007-11-17T01:51:00.000-05:00

I don't normally watch much television, but I caught some this past weekend when I was visiting my folks. One of the commercials that really lodged its way into my memory was for a particularly family-friendly SUV, with cushy fold-down captain's chairs in the back and not one but two video monitors. Now, I realize that TVs in vehicles are nothing new. After all, I saw Silent Light. But I still felt more than a little uneasy about the idea.

I suppose this has more than a little to do with my own childhood road trips, in which there was no television to watch on the road, although even if there were my parents probably wouldn't have allowed more than a teensy bit. I'm sure some of the younger ones out there might be wondering what we did on the road without TV to entertain us. Well, I'll tell you. We listened to the radio, we put on some music, or- dig this- we just talked.

The more I think about my youth, the more I realize that it wasn't always the major events that made the biggest dent in my consciousness. I don't remember some of my vacations all that well, but I have no problem picturing the drive in my mind. Mom and dad in front, alternating driving duties, with my brother and I sprawled out in the back of the minivan amongst the luggage. Likewise, I'll always associate certain things with the road. A long drive out to camp with dad meant sports on the radio, usually a Cleveland Indians game (then announced by Tom Hamilton and Herb Score) or Cavaliers basketball (called, then as now, by the great Joe Tait). I don't think I've ever listened to a book on tape except when I've been on the road, with or without family. Nothing says a late-night drive down a country road quite like the songs of Glen Campbell. And we'd do a lot of talking, even over the music or the book tapes- nothing very profound of course, but it was probably the longest consecutive parcel of time we had together for the entire summer, so we'd make the most of it.

I could speculate all day about what the proliferation of TVs in our nation's family automobiles means- a fascination with electronic gizmos, cross-promotional shenanigans between the automakers and the electronics giants, even the a la carte entertainment ideology that seeks to keep everyone diverted by giving every single person what he wants (divide and conquer?). But that's a subject for another time, and perhaps another place. All I can think of now is that something has been lost. The family car trip, once a bonding experience, a few days' worth of "quality time" spent en route to a destination and back again, has reverted back to its most basic form, some slow time required to get you to where you really want to be. The televisions may pass the time and distract the kids from the drive, but the truth is that we never needed them before. The only entertainment we really needed was buckled into the other seats, headed for the same place we were, and we'd all be arriving at the exact same time.

Friendly, not familiar

2007-10-28T00:34:00.001-04:00

I don't know if anybody else has noticed this, but when I head out to restaurants nowadays, I feel like the wait staff is trying extra special hard to get my tips. I say this because they're going overboard to be almost smothering in their friendliness. Instead of the usual "hi, welcome to So-and-So's, can I get you anything to drink today?" I often find myself confronted with servers, usually college-aged, who greet me like a friend. This is especially noticeable when you're with a group: "hey guys, how's everything going today?" and the like. For one thing, this is especially irritating when the group contains both men and woman. Call me old-fashioned, but I don't refer to women as "guys" unless they're friends of mine.

But even when it's just me at the table, too often I feel like the server is assuming an institutional, tip-grubbing kind of familiarity on me that I don't really feel like dealing with when I'm hungry, or any other time for that matter. Now, I understand that servers make a good chunk of their money on tips, and that to get those tips they need to be friendly. But there's a difference between good service and aggressive service. I find this is especially prevalent among male servers, who will lay all manner of forced banter on me, the better to make a strong impression. Is it just that women, or at least the kinds of women who are drawn to server positions, are better able to project warmth and cordiality without backing it up with go-getter aggressiveness?

So, a note to all servers and wait staff who are reading this: I don't ask for much from you. Greet me with a smile. Take my order. Bring it to me in a timely manner, and make sure it's right. If there's a problem, solve it to the best of your ability, and if you can't, bring me someone who will. And when I have my food, leave me alone and let me eat. Unless you screw up, you'll get your 20%. And who knows- if there's a problem but you solve it with grace and efficiency, or if you deliver outstanding levels of service, you may very well get more than that.

I go to restaurants for one reason only- to eat. Despite what you might think when you read some of the posts here, I do have friends, and I don't need people to act like my friends just to make my dining experience special. There's a rather disturbing trend I've noticed lately at certain restaurants I visit- after I've received the bill and the server has taken my credit card, he or she will sometimes return with the card and refer to me by my name. Seriously- WHAT THE FUCK? Oh, do I know you? Have we been formally introduced? No? Then don't refer to me by my name. Get it? Got it? Good.

Well, that settles it...

2007-10-14T22:28:00.000-04:00

Good to know, I guess. Although I remember taking a much more thorough nerd test back during my high school years, so there you go.

Home cookin'

2007-10-12T00:19:00.000-04:00

Taking the advice of Andy Horbal, I gave Alton Brown's recipe for Baked Macaroni and Cheese a whirl last weekend. As expected it was tasty, although I think I could make a few small improvements to up the deliciousness factor. But since I live alone, I had a whole bunch left over (don't worry, this isn't going to be another post about how I can't get a date). I ended up taking the leftovers to work with me for several days thereafter, as a reprieve from my usual can of soup.

Now, here's the real story. When I'd be heating up my leftover mac and cheese, most people would either say nothing or say, "hey, did you make that yourself?" But there was one exception. A woman about my age (I almost typed "girl" for some reason) who I sometimes see at lunch noticed what I had and asked me, "did you make that or was it from the Colonel's?" Those six words made all the difference- "or was it from the Colonel's". I gotta admit, that hurt my feelings a bit.

I pride myself on being at least a little domesticated. I don't always eat out of boxes or cans, and can cook a decent number of good dishes either from memory or from recipes I inherited from various sources- mom, grandma, Uncle Alton, and the like. So I think my reaction to her question had a lot to do with her (entirely unnecessary) implication that I might not have cooked the macaroni and cheese. After all, most people simply asked if I'd cooked the dish without feeling the need to suggest an alternative that involved me not lighting the stove.

But I'd be lying if I said that the particular alternative that popped into her head and out of her mouth had nothing to do with it. Because... KFC? Really? I'm sure their mac and cheese isn't bad for fast-food mac and cheese, but is it really worth saving the leftovers?

Or could she have possibly been implying that I had brought in my lunch a dreaded failure pile in a sadness bowl?????

Ugh. Heavens forbid in my opinion.

Oh well. Let her eat her Colonel's mac and cheese. More of the homemade stuff for me, thankyouverymuch.

"If you want the things you love, you must have showers"

2007-10-04T22:06:00.000-04:00

It just dawned on me that there might be a few people out there who visit this blog but aren't in the habit of checking out my main blog. Well, here's some motivation for you. Starting this past Sunday, I began a weekly quiz entitled Famous Last Words. The basic idea is that I post the final line from a movie and you guess the movie. Guess the most over the next 12 weeks and you win a $20 gift certificate from The Criterion Store.

Well, what are you waiting for?

Love is all around

2007-10-01T22:20:00.001-04:00

In my last post, I related a story that happened to me, in which I was turned down by a certain Internet dating service, the reason being that based on my performance on their "personality test," I was judged unlikely to derive much benefit from their service. In other words, I didn't fit into one of their neat little profiles. I get it- I'm not like most guys, and while I'm completely cool with that, I'm not what a lot of women are looking for.

I hadn't intended a follow-up post, but I received the following in my e-Mail this morning and couldn't resist:

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Setting aside the fact that there is no mention here of rich women looking for ~~eager~~ "sophisticated" men (or gay pairings, for that matter), there's plenty to chew on here.

Seriously, how could nobody have thought of this before? What kind of men have the hardest time meeting women? Why, rich ones, of course! Really, doesn't a poor rich guy have enough hardship in his life without having to put forth the effort of finding a woman who could find it in her heart to embark on a relationship with him? What could a woman ever expect to gain from a well-to-do gentleman?

But what's that you say? The life of a wealthy young man is fraught with peril from a slew of tight-bodied, ambitious ladies seeking to ensnare him purely for financial reasons? Surely a woman such as this wouldn't dare hunt for a man at a site called MillionaireMate.com! No gold-digger would dream of joining a service that advertises itself as catering to "women who appreciate the good life." That, my friend, is crazy talk.

Remember, ladies and gentlemen- relationships aren't just for plebeians anymore. Love, or something vaguely resembling it, is within your grasp! Visit MillionaireMate.com today to take advantage of our free membership. Sure, you can afford to pay, but why should rich people have to spend money needlessly?

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That old autumnal feeling

2007-09-23T22:33:00.000-04:00

OSU started classes this past week, and as such the city is crawling with students. And you know what that means- parties and keggers and drunks screaming "O-H!" "I-O!" to each other at all hours. It's around this time of year that I begin to reflect on how my college experience was really nothing like this scene. I didn't- and still don't- care for football, and the only reason I'd buy a student ticket would be to sell it for a profit. Likewise, I mostly went to movies or stayed in on weekends. I remember one time I got dragged along by my roommates to a party and wasn't really having a good time, and people kept asking me what was wrong. These people thought that since I was at a party, I should be having a good time, and since I wasn't I must be sick or sad or something along those lines. But the only thing wrong was that I was out of my element.

This is indicative of something that I realized long ago: I have a hard time relating to the majority of people out there.

I think this began when I was young. I was one of the smart kids, and I didn't play sports, so I didn't really have much in common with most of my classmates. I preferred talking to my teachers, which of course didn't endear me to my peers. I was thought of as a teacher's pet and a kiss-up, but I was just trying to connect with people who interested me. In high school, I had an easier time of things since I started involving myself in theatre and other school activities. But since high school, I've become less sociable with others. Sure, I'm cordial and friendly in my everyday interactions, but that's a far cry from really relating and connecting with those around me.

I used to agonize about my asocial (or is it anti-social) nature in my darker moments, wondering if maybe something was wrong with me that I didn't have a whole mess of friends to hang out with every night of the week. I thought that maybe the problem was that I was a snob, that I was too narrowly-focused on my own interests and priorities to be open to the interests and priorities of others. I thought that if I could work on being more easygoing and openminded, I could solve my problem.

But recently, I've realized something- I don't particularly enjoy most of the interests I can't relate to in others. If I'm going to be miserable at an OSU football game or at some party, why should I pretend to enjoy it just for the sake of those who do? It doesn't do me any good, and my lack of enjoyment will most likely bring them down. So I'm not going to waste my time, or their time, by faking it.

Sure, this hampers my social life. Just like in college, I'm spending most of my weekends watching movies and doing various jobs around my apartment, with the added fun of writing for Screengrab and occasionally posting to my blogs.

And understandably, my dating opportunities are limited. I've mostly given up on the possibility of meeting women through online dating services. Have you ever noticed that these things mostly pair up people with the most mainstream interests? Looking for a girl in Columbus who likes Buckeye football and reality shows? Yeah, that's a tough find. Let's look at the other end of the dating spectrum- a few months ago, I took a "personality test" to see whether I would be eligible to sign up with a certain dating service that will go unnamed. After tallying up my answers, I was told that I would not be accepted because my "personality score" fell outside the range that the jokers who ran the site believed could be easily hooked up with other eligible singles. Now, riddle me this, folks- if I could easily hook up with women, do you think I'd be wasting time and money on your site?

But it's cool. It's not a problem- it's just how I am. I've grown to accept it and even find ways to enjoy my solitude (the guinea pigs help). I don't have to answer to anyone if I'm alone on a Saturday night. I get lonely sometimes, but I could just as easily be lonely at a party, and at least at home I can watch a DVD.

And I still value my friends, both old and new. That's why Toronto rocked so hard. It wasn't just that I got to see a bunch of kickass movies before most of the world got to see them. It wouldn't have been nearly as much fun without the kindred spirits there with whom I was able to share my experience. It takes a certain kind of person to really dig into the TIFF experience, and for those who do it's a great way to bond. Of course there were all the cool people I got to hang with throughout the week, but even those random festival-goers I chatted with in rush lines or in theatres waiting for the screenings to start enriched my festival experience. It was only one week out of the year, but it was well worth the wait. I've learned to follow Polonius' advice- "to thine own self be true"- and I finally found an environment where my true self would be perfectly at home. And if I have to wait until next September to find that again, then so be it. I know it'll be worth the wait.

The Self Preservation Society

2007-09-16T01:01:00.000-04:00

In my ongoing mission to support Columbus area movie exhibiting in its many incarnations, I attended the Studio 35 theatre for the first time in ages Friday night. My excuse for going was a one-night-only screening of the 1969 version of The Italian Job, which I'd never seen, but I've always had a soft spot for the Studio, and not just because they serve local microbrews on tap. It's been around since the late 30s, and as such it's got more character than the prefab multiplexes around town. Theatres like this are a dying breed, and can use my patronage more than the big chains.

But I was in for an unpleasant surprise when the movie began- the screening was taking place on *gasp!* projected DVD rather than film. Of course, I stuck around, since I wanted to watch the movie, but I was pretty miffed. The Studio screens all of their new movies on film, so one would assume that maybe they'd get film prints of the classics as well, and if not, that they would be honest enough to admit as much on their web site. Unfortunately, this isn't an isolated incident for them. I've been attending the Studio for years, mostly for screenings of older films, but in the last few years- since they were bought by their present owners, come to think- more and more of these screenings have been projected video.

Now, I can guess why this is happening. It's a financial issue- film rentals are too high, and these screenings aren't well-attended enough to justify the cost. Besides, most people don't care. With practically everything going digital, most people won't complain, and in their eyes the somewhat lower quality is a small price to pay for the big-screen experience. Still, that's not what I go to a place like the Studio to see. The digital projection takes me out of the old movie-house experience. Show me a movie as it was meant to be shown, folks. Is that too much to ask?

I suppose it is. In order to keep Studio 35 open to the public, certain corners have to be cut in order to turn a profit. Showing a one-off late-night screening of an older movie on digital rather than film is a relatively minor concession, born more of financial necessity than negligence. It's certainly not as distracting as the wacky projection at the Drexel Grandview, not to mention the shitty sound system in auditorium 3 at the Drexel East, which gurgled so much today during a screening of Molière that it sounded like the orchestra was playing the score underwater. I skipped out on that film for that reason, while I was able to reconcile myself to the digital projection of The Italian Job at Studio. Still, in future I'll think twice before seeing a movie there. If nothing else, I'll be sure to call ahead to inquire how they'll be projecting the films.

Oh, what the hell...

2007-07-13T14:49:00.001-04:00

I was tagged for the 8 Things Meme again, this time by Dr. Criddle. Although I've already done my official entry in the meme, I figured I'd oblige with 8 more things, what with it being a slow work day and all. I won't burden you with the rules again, nor will I tag 8 more unfortunates. I've done my duty to the meme- this is just gravy.

1. I know this won’t sound very politically correct, but since we’re being honest here… I find the word "homo" hilarious. In particular, every time I hear someone whose age is in the double digits say "homo" in reference to a homosexual, I have an almost unbearable time containing my laughter. It’s one thing to hear a kid use it- kids are often prone to using cutesy names for stuff that shouldn’t be talked about in "polite" conversation (see also: "doody," "nards," "frenching," "cooter," "doing it," "wiener," and so forth), but adults who wish to be taken seriously at all have no call to say "homo." It’s just so bizarre to hear it in a supposedly grown-up voice that I’ll end up laughing to myself about it all day. I wonder what gay people make of this word- it’s undeniably a smear against homosexuality, but at the same time it’s so childish that laughing seems practically the only reasonable response. Thoughts?

2. I’m probably in the minority on this, but I don’t find Kirsten Dunst hot. I know plenty of guys who are into her, but not me. The only movie I find her even remotely appealing in is Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, which oddly enough had perhaps the least flattering cinematography of any movie she’s made. In the Spider-Man movies, on the other hand, I’m just not feeling it.

3. I was pretty musical in my youth, taking piano lessons for ten years and playing in the marching and symphonic bands in high school. I would like to learn another musical instrument. Several, eventually, but one to start out with. I’m not all that jazzed on learning to play the guitar, woman-attracting potential aside. I’m thinking something more along the lines of a classical instrument- perhaps the violin, or even the flute. The flute would be a better option given my current living situation- if I had my own house, I wouldn’t have to worry about noise so much, but in an apartment complex you don’t want to disturb the neighbors. Or maybe I could learn to play the theremin…

4. In addition to my instrumental music endeavors, I’ve also done a lot of singing in my life. Between some musical theatre, high school choir, and Men’s Glee Club in college, I was pretty active there for a while. And I was pretty darn good, if I do say so myself- I had a strong, clear baritone voice, well suited to both solo and ensemble singing. Unfortunately, in the intervening years my voice has suffered, due to lingering issues related to allergies and a seemingly endless string of minor respiratory ailments. I just can’t sing like I used to, and when I try I can’t keep it up for long. Damn.

5. I’m the only member of my immediate family who has never worked for Goodyear. Then again, I’m also the only one who doesn’t live in or around Akron, home of their world headquarters, so I suppose that makes sense.

6. Of all the movies I haven’t seen in my life, the one I’m most ashamed of is Pialat’s A Nos Amours. There are others I’m more eager to see, but of all the films on my lift, Amours is the only one I actually own. I’ve had a VHS copy for about 5 years and I STILL haven’t gotten around to watching it.

7. The more I think about it, the more I’ve warmed to the idea of naming my purely hypothetical daughter Muriel. I originally named my guinea pig Muriel in part because I liked the name but didn’t consider it something I’d name a child. But given my love for somewhat outmoded names, I could do a whole lot worse. And it beats the hell out of the lame crappy names you hear nowadays. I can’t tell you how sick I got of hearing the name "Chelsea" while working at the movie theatre. Gee lady, I wonder who was president when you had HER?

8. The thumb on my right hand is double jointed, but not on my left hand. So much for bilateral symmetry.

Meme fever!

2007-07-06T12:54:00.000-04:00

Perhaps as payback for stealing his idea to post great faces, Dennis tagged me for the Eight Things meme that has been making the blog rounds of late. But first, the rules:

a) Post the rules
b) Post eight random things
c) Post the names of eight as-yet un-chosen bloggers who will subsequently ignore your tagging them or put off posting their own responses

Anyway, here goes. Unlike Dennis’ contribution, my eight things are all true. Make of that what you will.

1. I’m currently planning a trip to the Toronto International Film Festival this fall. As part of my fundraising attempts, I’ve cut back on all incidental spending. The biggest sacrifice will be my plan not to buy any more DVDs until after the fest. Granted, this will be made somewhat easier by the fact that the upcoming Zodiac DVD reportedly contains no extras, but still- given that I average at least one new DVD a week, this’ll be kind of tough.

2. I have very pale and sensitive skin. I generally avoid the sun for fear of getting burned, many fragrances tend to irritate my skin, and I redden easily, particularly on my neck. The latter provided my high school classmates no end of amusement, as they would always jokingly refer to me as "redneck" or ask me who give me those hickeys. Ever since then, I’m inclined to think that anyone who calls high school the best years of your life could probably use a good punch in the face.

3. That said, not all my high school experiences were negative. Of course, since they take place over four years, how could they be? But for all I accomplished back in high school, nothing made me prouder than a long letter I wrote to the school newspaper my junior year. The subject of the letter was my displeasure with the publication’s tendency to publish as many athletics-related stories as possible, to the exclusion of other activities and interests. Not the most original subject, but it was very well-received by many of my peers. On the day it was published I actually received a standing ovation from several of my classmates, and several "hell yeah" response letters appeared in the next issue. Last summer, when I was sorting through some of my old personal affects, I found the letter and read it again, and to my surprise it still hit home. What struck me wasn’t simply how exhaustively I argued my points, but the passion with which I had written it. I sometimes wish I had something in my life today that I could be this passionate about, or simply the energy to be passionate about something.

4. I’m not a big fan of weekends. Having few major commitments in my life, I find that I need to keep busy or else time slows to a standstill. Back when I was at the theatre, I would always request never to be given two days consecutive off unless I had specifically asked for those days. The reason for this is because by afternoon of the first day I usually ran out of stuff to occupy my time. Things have gotten better for me ever since I started writing for Screengrab, since now I have something to focus on over the weekend. So that’s nice.

5. As much as I write- and profess to enjoy writing- I’m not a big fan of the writing process in and of itself. Simply put, it takes me ages to write something that’s actually to my liking. Much of this comes from the fact that I constantly second-guess what I’ve written, and that I generally rewrite as I go. I think of part of this is due to the dinosaur word-processing program I used in my youth, which didn’t even have spell-check, so I had to pay particular attention to everything I typed. But whatever it is, the simple fact is that it takes me FOREVER to write anything longer than a Trailer Roundup. Once, I told someone that I wish I could attach a printer to my brain to print out all of my creative ideas, since while I don’t like writing, I really like re-writing, and if I could jump straight to the re-writing the process would be much less of a chore. Sadly, I don’t think that’ll happen anytime soon.

6. I own the Hudson Hawk soundtrack CD. I can’t remember why.

7. About a month ago, I was holding my guinea pig Muriel when I noticed some strange growths on the outsides of her front feet. I inspected them (she has an occasional tendency to nip at my hands) and concluded that they were probably calluses. However, a few days ago I was holding her again when I noticed that they had grown out. These growths weren’t calluses at all, but extra claws. As the fellow said, life is full of surprises.

8. I haven’t been in a serious long-term relationship since Clinton was president. Just wanted to get that out there.

Finally, I hereby infect: Jason, Steven, Mark, Jay, Kent, Tosh, Danny, and, uh, Kevin. Let the disregarding commence!

This blog will be released unrated in my opinion.

2007-06-30T09:21:00.000-04:00

Dear blog ratings board,

I know I don't have studio backing for this blog or anything, but I'm sure you can agree that this is a bit excessive. For a blog that contains no graphic decapitations or scenes of committed gay couples making love, I don't think an NC-17 is warranted. Especially for such arbitrary reasons. As you yourself point out, the reasoning behind this rating is as follows:

Pain (9x) Hell (7x) Shit (6x) Death (4x) Dead (3x) Sex (2x) Crappy (1x)

I gotta say, the offensiveness of some of these words is new to me. Obviously, we don't want our kids growing up and saying stuff like shit, but to penalize my blog to this extent for "pain" and "death" and even "sex" just tells me what a candyland you're living in. Meanwhile, my occasional tendency to casually use the word "fuck" seems to have gone unnoticed.

Another thing- Do you only rate blogs based on the posts on the main page? Because I'm sure I've posted some more objectionable material in the past. To wit, the rating of my flagship blog, Silly Hats Only:

This making my principal blog my equivalent of THE STRAIGHT STORY, which I can handle. I suppose this would make sense if you only took into account the main page of the blog, which is mostly composed of pictures. All told, you only found 2 uses of the word "dead" and 1 of "hell," although I'm a little surprised you overlooked the word "shitty" about halfway down. And it's obvious that you didn't scan the comments, or else you would have discovered "battered chapped vagina" among the Patton Oswalt comments. But if you didn't notice it, then I needn't inform you about it. Oh, wait.

Finally, if you're curious, here's the rating for my screening blog, where most of my recent short-form commentary is currently housed:

Yeah, I figured this would happen, considering that I write as much there as I do on Leprosy. The reasons for the rating were:

Hell (11x) Dead (7x) Sex (5x) Zombie (4x) Death (3x) Kill (2x) Gay (1x)

I do find it odd that you folks place such importance on the word "zombie" in your rating. I guess I ought to start referring to the rocker-cum-DEVIL'S REJECTS auteur as "Rob Undead" or "Rob Brains Eater" to meet with your approval. But no, I'm guessing this is all about that single use of the word "gay." Isn't it, guys? ISN'T IT???

Somebody's getting married...

2007-06-24T00:19:00.000-04:00

And no, it's not me.

For the last week, my office has been abuzz at a coworker's upcoming wedding. The wedding itself was yesterday, and barring any unforeseen complications they should be on their way to their honeymoon. All in all, it brightened the mood at work, which was nice, since working in a bank the mood could use as much brightening as possible.

However, I found myself in a strange position, as I'm the only permanent employee in my office who has never been married. There are a few who aren't married anymore, but they're in a different boat altogether. So whenever somebody would congratulate my coworker on her upcoming nuptials and I was somewhere nearby, the congratulator would inevitably turn to me and ask, "so, when are you getting married?"

Eventually, I learned to tailor my responses depending on who was asking. My generic answer tended to be "not anytime soon." If it was a guy- especially an older guy- I'd heap on the alpha-male swagger with "you know me, I like my bachelor lifestyle too much for that." And if it was a woman with whom I had a comfortable working relationship, I'd turn it into a self-deprecating joke, something along the lines of "I like women too much to inflict myself upon them."

All the wedding talk got me thinking- many of the people in my life are married. Not just those at work, but family members too, even some younger than I am. To say nothing of my friends, both in my everyday interactions and those I correspond with online. Looking down my blogroll, the majority of the people whose sites and blogs I frequent are married/engaged/in long-term relationships, and a good number of them have kids.

So being single and not in a relationship, I do feel a little out of the loop sometimes. By and large, married people gravitate toward other married people. This makes sense, since they tend to have a good deal in common with each other. But at the same time, having lots of married friends hasn't exactly done wonders for my own social life either. Heaven forbid anyone try to fix me up with their single friends or anything, but more and more I notice a tendency among married people to freeze us unmarried types out of their social circles. Not that I'm asking for them to hook me up with their single friends or anything- I'd just like to be included in the grown-up games now and again, instead of being relegated to the kids' table, figuratively speaking.

And yet, I'm not all that impatient to be married. I'm genuinely happy for my married friends, and I'd be a shitty friend if I begrudged them that happiness. Likewise, I don't dismiss the idea of marriage as a serious possibility for myself in the future. All I'm saying is that I'm not sweating it. This hasn't always been the case. As many of you may recall, I used to despair that I'd end up alone and unloved, like the overweight best friend in a bad chick flick. But the more I see of myself, the more I think that I simply may not be ready for marriage quite yet. And you know what? I'm cool with that. I can wait to get married, if waiting means I find someone cool instead of someone whose standards are relaxed enough to marry me. Sure, if I wait I might never end up being in a 66-year marriage like my paternal grandparents, but oh well. I've got a lot of living, and I dare say no small amount of growing up, to do before I commit to marriage. I can't be sure, but I believe it'll happen someday, and for now that's good enough for me.

Reflections on a cinema

2007-06-10T22:45:00.000-04:00

Ever since I started going to movies down here in Columbus, I've had a soft spot for the Drexel Grandview Theatre. This theatre, about a twenty minute walk from my apartment, is your basic old-school neighborhood movie house. Whereas other theatres in the area offer everything from sandwiches and alcohol to stadium seating and IMAX, the Grandview is a no-frills operation, serving just your basic concession items- popcorn, candy, soda, and your requisite snacks- and more often than not is staffed by two or three people, one to sell tickets and run the projector, the others to sell concessions and clean up. Hell, they don't even have their own parking lot. But all these things are part of the charm. At a time when multiplexes tend to resemble Vegas casinos or alien ships, there's something comforting to visit a theatre with a tiled lobby and upholstered walls. They still use the old roll-style ticket stock, and they don't accept credit cards, but it's a small price to pay for a relaxing setting in which to watch a movie.

And yet the relaxation I get from the surroundings is twinged with more than a little sadness, as the place has more than its share of problems along with its comforts. One of the sadder ones is the seats. Now, I love the seats at the Grandview- the old-fashioned padded, folding theatre seats that have just enough padding in the butt cushion and just enough give in the back to be really comfortable. But it's a good thing I habitually arrive early and sit in my same seat, otherwise I might have a hard time find a seat that (a) has both of its armrests, and (b) doesn't have torn upholstery. To cite one example, the seat next to my regular seat has been torn for years. I'm not sure if nobody has noticed, or nobody has cared to fix it. I'd wager it's the ladder.

In addition, there are some pretty glaring presentation problems to reckon with. The sound system is pretty old and probably hasn't been fine-tuned in years (one reason why I sit in front). But even worse is the picture quality. The masking around the screen doesn't adjust, which wouldn't be a big deal except that the projector's aperture plate is visibly dirty, which isn't a problem on flat movies but is really distracting on 'scope. In addition, some of the masking is torn, and on a flat movie it hangs down into the image.

However, the biggest problem I have is a design flaw that probably dates back to the theatre's construction. The projection booth is almost directly above the box office, and so the image is projected out of the booth's port glass, through the high-ceilinged concession lobby, through a second window, and then over the audience onto the screen. Not ideal, but not terrible, except that the directly under the second window sits the theatre's popcorn popper, which when it's turned on expels steam from its exhaust vent, which then travels directly through the path of the projected image. When this happens, it's plainly visible onscreen, and is highly distracting. Imagine watching a movie in a sauna and you have the idea.

The Drexel Grandview shows mostly arthouse-oriented movies, and because of the prevalence of DV-shot indies and documentaries in the arthouse market the visual quality of some movies suffers more than others. But honestly, it shouldn't matter. If the owners of the theatre really cared about their visual presentation, they would try to formulate a solution to this issue in order to improve their projection standards- perhaps a duct from the top of the popper that could carry the exhaust around the image path instead of through it.

Unfortunately, judging by this and other necessary repairs that have yet to be undertaken, this probably won't happen anytime soon. At a time when more people are waiting for DVD to watch movies, arthouse movies are especially vulnerable to dips in attendance. People outside the major markets have no other option available, and people in the big markets figure they don't need the big-screen experience in the same way as, say, PIRATES OF THE CARIBBEAN. So while the multiplexes try to hold onto the crowds with expanded concession offerings and state-of-the-art performance gizmos like digital projection, small theatres like the Grandview get left in the dust.

From a business standpoint, I have no doubt that it's something of a white elephant, a money pit. But if one really cares about cinema and the experience of watching movies, it can also be a labor of love. One of my dreams has always been that if I had enough money, I'd buy, restore, and operate an old movie house. If I was given a chance to do so with the Grandview, I'd jump at it. Something about watching a movie in a place like that feels right in a way that it doesn't at the snazzier, more modern theatres, and I only hope that its owners will finally fix its big problems while keeping what makes it special. After all, I'm not sure I like the idea of a future with nothing but prefab multiplexes.

Counting my blessings

2007-05-11T11:05:00.000-04:00

This was inspired by Donna Bowman's recent post, "Lucky Me." I don't know if I'd consider myself as lucky as she is, but I'm still doing pretty OK. A dozen reasons why:

1. When I moved home briefly a few years ago, a major reason was because of my dad’s health. This eventually led to his getting bypass surgery- cardiac, not gastric. Thankfully, there were no complications. A year and a half later, you’d never guess he had heart problems.

2. My mom spent the first fifteen years of my life at home taking care of me and my brother. Once she returned to the workforce, she eventually found a job she loved- working on the ground crew for the Goodyear blimp. She spends most of her summers away from home, but she loves it all the same.

3. All of my grandparents are still alive and alert. They aren’t as young as they used to be, but who is? I still have time to spend with them and, more importantly, they still have their loved ones to keep them company. I can imagine few fates lonelier than weathering your final years without the person you love most.

4. As for me, my health is pretty good, and getting better. Working a set schedule means I have a consistent sleep pattern, and my migraines have mostly cleared up ever since I dropped caffeine from my diet. Plus I recently was able to take my belt in a notch. Which means my tactic of dietary moderation is working.

4 1/2 (just added). All five senses still work beautifully. Watching so many movies has taught me to love my sight and hearing, but lately I've been growing more and more fond of my sense of taste*. This is a pretty great time to be a lover of food, and Columbus is a pretty good place to be to indulge that love, even if like me you're on a budget. There's plenty of different foods to choose from here, running the gamut from old-school to thoroughly modern. Consider that last night I stopped at a coffee shop and picked up some bread pudding**, while today I dropped in at Jeni's Ice Cream and tried one of their seasonal flavors, called Crème de Violet***. If the variety of desserts offered around here is that impressive, imagine the meals one can find.

5. My mind is as active and alert as ever. Even when the task in front of me doesn’t demand a whole lot of thought, I have plenty to occupy my brain. I wouldn't trade my intelligence for anything- not money, not fame, not charisma with the ladies, nothing.

6. I know I complain a lot about my job, but I’m pretty lucky in this respect. I can afford my own apartment, to pay for all my necessities, and still have time left over for the simple pleasures that make my life rewarding.

7. Columbus may not have the formidable amount of cinema and arts options of a New York City, but it beats the hell out of most places. The Wexner Center in particular is invaluable to the cultural landscape of my life.

8. Most of my favorite films are out on DVD, with others on the way. And more as-yet-unseen treasures too, still waiting to be discovered. Yes, I'd love to be able to watch all the greats on the big screen, but being able to see them at all is wonderful enough for me.

9. My guinea pigs are as cute and fun as ever. First I bought Muriel last fall to give me a life to worry about besides my own and keep me company, and a few months later I bought Victoria to keep Muriel company when I wasn’t around. A month later, Victoria surprised me by having babies, and I ended up getting two of them adopted and keeping the third for myself. I couldn’t be happier- Charlotte is as adorable as her mother, and is a welcome addition to the menagerie. And Muriel is as cute and ornery as ever, but that’s OK, since I’m kind of ornery too.

10. In addition to the job that pays the bills, I’ve been lucky these past few months to write for The Screengrab, which allows me to parlay my twin passions for cinema and talking/writing about cinema into a few extra bucks a week. Sometimes I wish I could write about movies full-time, but I’ll take what I can get. As it is, the relatively light writing demands placed upon me by The Screengrab give me an outlet for my love of cinema, plus lend some structure to my weekly routine. When the most difficult aspect of a job is coming up with a new Movie Moment every week, you know you've got a pretty good gig. And being on the same writing staff with Vern is pretty sweet too.

11. My writing has connected me with a lot of other great writers and bloggers online, not just those with a cinematic focus- like this one and this one and this one- but more broad-minded types as well, like this one and this one. You really can’t go wrong with any of the cool cats in the blogroll on my main blog- some post more frequently than others (and most more frequently than me) but they’re all worth reading.

12. I’m young and relatively free. No significant other, no kids. Makes the nights lonely sometimes, but I can deal with it. Even more than when I had just graduated from college, I feel like I have a world of possibilities is open to me. And if one of those possibilities is marriage and a family, then hey, that’s fine too.

* Last year I took my grandma and grandpa out to lunch one day, and my grandma told me that she has almost completely lost her sense of taste. No doubt this is due to a combination of smoking for a few decades and, y'know, being 90 years old, but still, yikes. Much of the enjoyment of eating must be gone if you can't taste your food, and the workmanlike way she shoveled bean soup into her mouth reflected this. Because if you can't taste what you eat, what's left? The texture? The temperature? To no longer be able to taste the foods I love- whether it's a big fat steak or a Galley Boy from Swenson's in Akron- is almost too sad to bear.

** I have a weakness for somewhat outmoded foods (is there anywhere around here that serves a good corned beef hash?) and I'd say bread pudding certainly qualifies. Verdict on this particular incarnation: Not bad, but nothing worth writing home about. Certainly not as good as the place I get bread pudding whenever I'm in Cleveland, which usually uses the previous day's muffins. Usually they would use blueberry, which was tasty enough, but it was a special treat when they had leftover cinnamon raisin muffins to use. Oh great, now I'm craving bread pudding. The only thing that's keeping me from getting it is the fact that it's a 3 hour drive to get the kind I really want. Of such unhappy accidents are successful diets made.

*** Yes, the flavor name is to be translated literally- as in "Cream of Violet." Jeni's uses special edible violets for this flavor, which has a light, fruity taste- perfect for eating in 80-something temperatures. The downside is that they're pretty pricey, but in a way that's good, since a little ice cream is about all I can afford to eat at one time without worrying about packing on pounds. So a small cone has become a kind of reward for a week of healthy eating, which gives me something to look forward to. Next week: Bartlett Pear and Riesling Sorbet!

When 4 and 5 are not the same as 9

2007-05-08T21:08:00.000-04:00

Back in grade school, I hated that the teachers graded us on handwriting. Maybe the fact that my penmanship has never been the best had something to do with it, but even then it seemed to me a little unfair that something so contingent on natural ability warrant an official letter grade (I felt the same way about gym and art class). Try as I might I could never manage to get my right hand to make the proper loops on the capital F's, and so on. It seemed to me that handwriting would be better if it was graded pass-fail or outstanding/satisfactory/unsatisfactory rather than A-F grades- after all, an A should be something that's always attainable, and even in my best efforts, I could never manage A handwriting.

(Side note: fuck cursive in my opinion. We got cursive rammed down our throats in grades 2 through 6. Every damn paper in cursive. How much have I used cursive since I graduated? Big fat never. I think even those who aced handwriting in grade school can probably say the same. Sorry for the digression.)

But while today I still sort of question the wisdom of handwriting as an all-out class in school, I respect it more as a discipline. Sure, we type a lot more nowadays than we did back then, but most of us still write things in longhand. Longhand writing tends to be for less formal occasions, such as when we write quick notes for others or even ourselves. While the notes aren't anything fancy, the people I leave them for still have to read them. So I set about to improving my handwriting (manuscript, NOT cursive) so that I wouldn't be misunderstood. That's just good courtesy. AND good communication.

Yet it amazes me how sloppy other people's writing can get. If I find a note written to me that looks like a chimp was trying to doodle, I question why the writer of the note even bothered. What is the point of writing an urgent message for somebody when that person has to hunt you down just to decipher it?

But just like I didn't get in the habit of throwing away my trash after a movie until I toiled in a theatre, I never fully appreciated the value of legible penmanship until I started a job new a few months ago. I work at a bank, and much of my day is spent operating an electronic check processor, one that scans checks from our customers and enters them into the bank's computer system. Ideally, this job would be a piece of cake, and when I say "ideally," I mean to say, "if people took more than 2 1/2 seconds to fill out their checks." The pain in the ass part of the job isn't the scanning of the checks, but the second step of it, entering the check data the processing program can't quite read.

Seriously- if you're paying a bill with a check, don't you think it'd benefit you to write your numbers legibly? How would it benefit you if the 6 you wrote looked like a 0? You could get something shut off for not paying the minimum amount, and it'd be your own damn fault. The worst are people whose 4s, 5s, and 9s are virtually indistinguishable. You'd think it would take some effort to make those look alike, but no. All you have to do is make them all look like cartoon lightning bolts. More common than you'd expect.

There are some other troubles that come with the job (don't get me started on people who write checks in green gel ink), but this is by far the biggest and most common annoyance. I'm sure others have the same problem- consider your local pharmacist, who has made a career of deciphering doctors' scrawled prescriptions. If only the habitual chicken scratchers of the world could be sentenced to a week's worth of remedial penmanship, perhaps working a check processing machine to see what a pain in the ass their lazy, lousy writing is. I'm not asking for "A" handwriting, folks, but how much more effort does it take so that we can read it?

Rude awakening, or: Thanks, Jane!

2007-04-28T13:11:00.000-04:00

Waking up in the morning (or for some, the afternoon or evening) is something we all do, so we don't really think about it. Most of the time, I'll set my alarm clock to the local classical station, setting the alarm time for about half an hour before I actually want to get up. That way I can hit the snooze button, lie in bed for another half hour listening to music, or get up if I'm no longer feeling sleepy. But when I don't have to work in the morning, I'd rather just wake up naturally. If I am awakened by an outside force, I'd rather it be a benign one, like the tiny feet of my guinea pigs running around in their cages, or a beautiful woman gently nudging me awake.

Some mornings- most, really- I'm not that lucky. But aside from some highly unlikely candidates (a grizzly bear tearing off my arm, say) I can think of few wakeups that would be less unpleasant than the one I got this morning. Yep, I had a cramp in one of my calf muscles. Around 6:30 this morning, I was in the middle of a fairly pleasant dream when it hit me. I remember actually crying out in pain, that's how bad it was. What could I do? There I was, my mind still not alert, suddenly shocked into a waking state by a sharp pain.

Naturally, the first thing I did was reach down and try to massage it out, but that didn't really work for me. When I got my composure a little more, I hit on the idea of stretching out the muscle, so I turned over on my stomach, planted my big toe on the bed, and pushed back on the leg, which helped to alleviate the pain. But I think what helped just as much was the glass of water I usually keep by the bed. I started doing this a few years ago in the winter, when the heat would get me dried out, and I never got out of the habit. I think it helped that I had just watched Scott Stark's More Than Meets the Eye: Remaking Jane Fonda, which contains audio of one of Jane's old 20 Minute Workout tapes. As I lie in bed, trying to work out the pain, I thought of Jane saying, "now go drink a lot of water- muscles need to be hydrated," or something like that. Sure enough, after half a glass of water and some stretching, I managed to get back to sleep. Whew.

OK, just so you don't have to look at that horrible William and Mary post at the top anymore...

2007-04-27T23:37:00.000-04:00

Over the past week I've come to the conclusion that I should look for a new job. This one just isn't cutting it. And it's not about the money. Check that- it's not JUST about the money. Getting paid more would be nice, especially so I don't have to blow my nest egg just to go to TIFF this year.

But more important than the simple fiscal consideration is my gradual realization that the banking industry really isn't for me. I'd had my doubts about this job before, but I was able to rationalize them away. But little stuff has really started to grate on me, and when that happens there's only a matter of time before it piles up and then spills out.

The weirdest conclusion I've come to lately is that I don't like banking's overreliance on numbers. This may sound like an odd objection, but hear me out. I don't mind math- in fact, I'm pretty good at it, if somewhat out of practice. But in banking, you work with two kinds of numbers. There's the kind that you use for their mathematical properties- to add, subtract, and the rest- and then there's the kind that is used just for identification purposes. And those I don't do so well with. When I look at something like 123456789, I immediately think one hundred twenty-three million four hundred fifty-six thousand seven hundred eighty-nine. But a lot of the time you can't do that. The kicker is that I probably work with more non-math-related numbers than I do with math-related ones.

Now, I don't confuse easily, but when someone asks me to do something and the key elements of the request are four or five series of numbers- say, "can you switch the thingy from 45798121 to 7965223 with an index of 518 and a reference of 86859?"- I usually have to ask him to repeat himself at least once. And quite frankly, having to do this regularly makes me feel kind of stupid. I don't like feeling stupid. Really, I'm sure nobody does, but being thought of as stupid is one of the things I fear most. So you can see why I might have some misgivings about this part of the job.

I think I'll call up my old temp agency- the one that got me this job- next week, to see if they can find me anything else. Hopefully something involving fewer numbers, or at least numbers I can add up if the urge hits me.

Offensive semi-jokes that will almost certainly get you slapped

2007-04-26T22:49:00.000-04:00

This was inspired by a girl I saw while I was out driving today:

A rather healthily-chested woman is walking down the street, wearing a t-shirt with "William and Mary" emblazoned across the chest. A guy walks up to her and asks, "so... which one's William?"

Sorry about that, guys.

Religious debate, in license-plate form

2007-04-26T22:47:00.000-04:00

When I came home from work today, I pulled into the parking lot and found a spot. As I was walked into my building, I noticed two cars parked next to each other. One had a license plate that read "LIV 4 HYM." The other's plate said "6SIXX6."

This could get reeeeeeeeally interesting...

So it goes.

2007-04-13T12:25:00.000-04:00

I was saddened by the recent passing of Kurt Vonnegut, who was a major literary hero to me during my high school and college years. I’ve been meaning to either read or re-read his work lately, and maybe now I actually will. But for the time being, I’ve been reading all of the appreciations of his life and work, many of which reference a certain passage from his masterful Slaughterhouse-Five, one that I hope someone will be cool enough to reference when delivering my funeral oration.

But this isn’t one of those- plenty have been written, most of which are better than I could have done. And that’s what really moves me about this, how personal these writers’ reflections on Vonnegut are. There is a great outpouring of sadness whenever a majorly respected or even beloved public figure dies, but the tenor of people’s reminiscences is different when it’s an artist. Writers in particular inspire very personal reflections, which makes sense- whereas many other art forms are best experiences communally, writing is a one-on-one relationship between text and reader. When you read a book that really hits home, it feels like the author is speaking directly to you.

Strangely, in light of Vonnegut’s passing, I couldn’t help but contrast it in my mind with Anna Nicole Smith’s death a few months back- strange because the reactions to their deaths were as different as their lives. Vonnegut’s passing has inspired a passionate wave of emotion from a relatively small segment of the population, and respectful shout-outs from the mainstream media. By contrast, Smith’s death was a media circus, with feeding frenzies springing up in the press over her autopsy and the paternity of her child.

These contrasts are illuminating. In a way, they kinda come down to the basic fact that he was an old writer who died, whereas she was fairly young, thus turning her death into a "tragedy." But it goes deeper than that. Writing is a solitary activity, and when writers become celebrities, it has as much to do with their extracurricular activities as it does with what they actually write. Smith, on the other hand, was a media creation through and through, a beneficiary of a popular culture that values visibility over accomplishment, and in which no celebrity is ever forgotten provided that she keeps the cameras close by. This was why the occasional gush-pieces that suggested that Elton John re-record "Candle in the Wind" in her memory were so misguided- she never had a legend in the first place, much less one that would endure after her candle burnt out. What, is the guy supposed to trot out the old warhorse every time a famous blonde dies before her time?

Thinking about these contrasts just throws into relief how the media is as much about telling stories as it is about reporting the facts. And rarely is this more apparent when a celebrity passes, since it gives journalists the ideal opportunity to pare down the lives of the famous into convenient plots- the humble beginnings, the rise to fame, the salad days, the fall from grace, and the tragic demise. When it all comes down to it, Smith’s life fit this mold perfectly.

But with all the ink has been spilled over her death, people just didn’t respond to it the way they did with Vonnegut’s. While Smith’s fame was largely predicated on what took for herself, whereas Vonnegut’s was predicated on what he gave to us. And that makes all the difference, really- Smith’s legacy was some naked pictures, a few lousy movies, a dopey reality show, and lots of disposable press clipping, all of which will no doubt be swallowed up by the media abyss. Whereas Vonnegut gave the world some of the greatest novels to be written during his lifetime, which will endure as long as people continue to read them.

Words, music, light and life

2007-04-09T14:36:00.000-04:00

- Watching CELINE AND JULIE and UP DOWN FRAGILE on two consecutive nights, besides reminding me once more how amazing a director Jacques Rivette is, also got me thinking about libraries. Nowadays, when you walk into a library, the architecture is contemporary-looking, with soft colors, fluorescent lighting, practical carpeting and metallic shelves. And lots of computers, of course. But for me, that's never felt right. Give me that old-school library look, with hardwood paneling and gigantic reference volumes. And the card catalog, naturally. Man, I could hang out in an big, old-style library all day, wandering through the bowels of the stacks, checking out what musty and rarely-unearthed treasures are just waiting to be found. And don't get me started on the fun that can be had with microfiche.

- My latest musical obsession: Patti Smith's "Birdland." I won't go too in-depth as to why this song is so awesome, lest I appear out of my depth in terms of my musical knowledge. But man, is this song ever amazing. What I love is how it starts off like a downbeat girl-and-a-piano tune, sort of like something Laura Nyro might sing. When I listened to it again a few days ago, I started grooving on it on that level when the roiling, almost dissonant guitar playing behind Smith started to sink it. It doesn't start up suddenly or anything, it just sort of occurs to you, like that pretty girl at work who you've never quite paid attention to before. And that ending- rather than building to the big finish, it just chills out. It's so simple and sublime. If you have a copy of HORSES (and if you don't you really ought to) do yourself a favor and listen to this one again.

- There's a fluorescent bulb almost directly above my cube, right in my line of sight, and it won't stop blinking. It's driving me completely batshit. I feel like I've woken up in one of those experimental flicker films from the 60s, the kind that always have a warning for people prone to seizures.

- Bad Cavy News: So the other day I was cleaning off Victoria babies, getting them washed so they would be good to give away when the time comes. It turns out that one of them is actually a boy, something I wasn't certain of before. They're small creatures, y'see, especially when they're that young, and their, ahem, naughty bits can be hard to distinguish when they're that size. But now it's pretty certain that she is actually a he. So I separated him from the rest post haste, much to his dismay. He seems pretty lonely all by himself for the first time, and he squeaks a lot more than he used to. I feel a little bad for him- it's not his fault he's a guy- but I can't have any more babies running around the place. The worst thing of all is that he's the cutest one, and had he been a female he would've been the one I would've kept for myself.

More adventures with fruit and meat

2007-04-08T18:03:00.000-04:00

I usually try to make it home for Easter Sunday with my family. Not that I'm religious or anything, but they have a nice get-together every year with a big meal, so I get to visit them all and get some free food at the same time. But this year I had some stuff going on at work that necessitated my staying in Columbus, so I decided to call them after their meal instead. And in lieu of eating with the family, I decided to take the time to do my own home-cooked meal, rather than the frozen dinners or carry-out I usually get.

Anyway, I settled on a pork roast as a suitable dinner. More specifically, that wonderful and surprisingly inexpensive cut that has been rather unappealingly labeled "pork butt." Seriously, do they just call it that so that your casual meat-buyer will pass it over, thus keeping prices down for those who know better? Bearing in mind my grandmother's philosophy that half of cooking is knowing what foods go together, I tried to come up with something to pair with pork, either as a side dish or a sauce. And then it hit me- apples.

Here's the recipe I formulated:

Slow Cooked Pulled Pork with Applesauce Topping
1 5-lb pork butt (bone-in pork shoulder)
1 tbsp garlic salt
1/2 cup water
5 cooking apples, peeled, cored and sliced
1/2 cup granulated sugar
2 tsp ground cinnamon
1/2 cup apple cider
1 lb egg noodles, cooked

The night before you plan to serve, rub down the outside of the pork butt with garlic salt. Place in slow cooker with water. Turn slow cooker to low level and cover. The next morning, add apples, sugar, and cinnamon, turning the heat to high level. 1/2 hour before serving, remove pork butt from slow cooker and turn heat back to low. Pour cider in slow cooker. Let pork butt stand 15 minutes, then pull into small pieces with two forks. Just before serving, place noodles in slow-cooker with applesauce mixture.

It takes a little planning ahead, but it's easy and very tasty. The pork alone was worth it- literally falling off the bone. I hadn't originally intended to use the cider, but the trouble with pork butt is that it produces so many juices that they overwhelm the apple taste. 1/2 cup is just about the right amount of cider to balance with the pork juices, although you can add more or less to taste. Oh, and don't forget that when you serve this, serve in a deep place or a bowl, because it gets pretty sloppy.

Now the only problem is what to do with the leftovers. I'm storing the pork and the noodles separately, so I could potentially pick up some BBQ sauce next time I go grocery shopping and use it for that. Maybe I should just start dating again, so that I won't have to waste this awesome innate cooking talent on myself (he said modestly). Hey, there's an idea...

Buckeye blast

2007-04-02T22:59:00.000-04:00

I don't really follow sports. Heck, I haven't watched a football game since I graduated from college. But after some ribbing by my co-workers at the bank last fall, I gave in and bought an OSU polo shirt to wear before big games. Every Friday, most of the employees sport their Scarlet and Grey in support of the Buckeyes, and during Michigan week participation is almost de rigeur. Heck, we even have a token Michigan fan to antagonize us. I don't really get into the games, but I do enjoy the energy that they create among my co-workers, so I play along so as not to be left out.

Now, I'm sure most of you out there noticed that Ohio State is playing for the NCAA men's basketball championship tonight. I don't follow college basketball any more than I do football, although I do fill out some March Madness brackets for fun, flipping a coin to pick the winners. So, anticipating the same Scarlet and Grey barrage at work, I dug my OSU polo out of the mothballs. But even though OSU was playing for the national championship- against the college the beat them in the football title game, no less- I and my scarlet-sportin' ways were in the minority. The energy that greeted every football game wasn't there.

Why is this? Why do my co-workers get less emotionally involved with the biggest, most important OSU basketball game in years than they do with your average football game? Why won't they break out the colors for this game even though they'll happily do so when Tressel's boys take on Podunk State? I'm not saying that my co-workers are a good representation of the mood in Columbus, but I'm pretty puzzled by this realization. When the football team lost the national championship, going to work was like attending a wake. If the same happened to the basketball team, will anyone care all that much?

Lester Bangs was right

2007-04-02T22:36:00.000-04:00

The other day I was over at a friend's house, watching some of ALMOST FAMOUS. It used to be that I would watch the radio station interview with Lester Bangs and look at his statement about the Doors as being an eccentric viewpoint by an opinionated guy. "Jim Morrison? He's a drunken buffoon masquerading as a poet." But watching it again, I realized that I was agreeing with him now. While I've claimed to like the Doors ever since my high school years, when was the last time I actually listened to any of my Doors CDs? I dare say it's been years.

The Doors are a big band for high schoolers getting into the uncharted realms of "classic rock." With Morrison's lyrics and the funereal music, they feel serious and deep, especially compared to innocuous contemporary pop. "Morrison's words are poetry," we tell ourselves, sometimes through a pot haze, sometimes not.

But when I came home and popped in one of my Doors CDs, I had one of those Tom Wolfe, can't-go-home-again moments. Most of their songs are pretty unlistenable. Maybe if I still smoked pot, I might have gotten that old feeling back, but I'm afraid those days are gone. A few songs hold up- "L.A. Woman" especially- but most hardly justify the grandiose claims we once made. The groovy organ solos now feel like drug-fueled dicking around, no less wanky than the guitar noodlings at a Dead concert ("I know my friends always charged me $35 bucks to listen to them dick around on guitars"). And poetry? Saying Morrison wrote his lyrics as poetry isn't necessarily a compliment- couldn't the same be said of any wannabe songwriter who rhymes "mire", "wire", and "pyre"?

I think what I responded to at that age, more than the lyrics or the music, was the pageantry and the pretention. Morrison played a dual role in his career, a rock'n'roll artist and a doomed musical messiah. He conveyed these roles in his music and his short life, and we believed him, as the young are apt to do. But divorced from this belief, the music just isn't the same. Nowadays, I yearn for music, not mystique. Bangs extols the virtues of the Guess Who- "they've got the courage to be drunken buffoons, which makes them poetic"- and I took have my favorites. Yet I can't help but feel a bit like a kid who just found out that there's no Santa Claus. I know the truth, and objectively I should be satisfied. But Christmas won't be quite the same anymore.

Bright idea du jour

2007-03-30T13:49:00.000-04:00

I hated high school gym class. A lot of this surely had to do with the fact that I was a clumsy nerd, so I was one of the last kids picked for most games, with the curious exception of basketball, which I ended up doing pretty OK at because I always scrambled to pull down rebounds. But another problem is that I just didn’t like most of the sports and activities that were foisted upon us. Naturally, most P.E. teachers are jocks themselves, so their lesson plans tend to be pretty jock-friendly. But then as now, I just didn’t enjoy dodgeball or soccer.

The funny thing is that I did enjoy taking P.E. classes in college. The big difference wasn’t just that the college courses were elective rather than mandatory, though that certainly didn’t hurt. No, what I really liked was the way I could handpick the sports I enjoyed or was curious about. I took everything from racquetball to ballroom dancing, and I enjoyed them all.

I’m wondering if an à la carte system might not also work at the high school level. Naturally, there would have to be some required stuff- a class focusing on fitness and nutrition, for example. But rather than making all students take the same P.E. curriculum, they would be able to choose from several different options every nine weeks or so. Give them a variety of choices- not just the obvious things like basketball and volleyball, but other stuff as well, like weightlifting or aerobics. Hell, I would’ve taken a quarter of aerobics in high school- not only would it have been good exercise, but it would’ve been crawling with girls, which would have appealed to me then as now.

Naturally, there would be some sports you couldn’t do, either due to insurance reasons (swimming), risk of injury (football, wrestling), or logistics (golf). And we could probably rule out ballroom dancing, due to parental complaints and awkwardness issues. But still, there are still plenty of sports out there for the students to enjoy. There could even be a points scale, based on the estimated level of impact.

For all the complaints that have been raised over kids getting fatter, most of the solutions have addressed diet, with very little proposed on the exercise end. I’m a firm believer in the idea that if you want people to get into good habits, you should make it fun for them. By allowing students to focus on sports they enjoy rather than slogging through ones they dislike, they’ll be able to get into a regular exercise routine as well as building a firm foundation for physical fitness in the future. After all, it wouldn’t be called "physical education" unless you were supposed to actually learn something.

Today's paradox: I become a grandpa before I'm even a dad

2007-03-09T21:19:00.001-05:00

So the pet store sold me a pregnant guinea pig. Victoria, that is, not Muriel- I've had her too long for her to have gotten pregnant on my watch. But you'd best believe that once I discovered that Victoria had given birth I took Muriel out and inspected her in order to prove that she was most definitely female.

In recent weeks I noticed that Victoria had been getting bigger, but I chalked this up to her increased appetite- I observed once she started relaxing around me, she began eating more, both pellet food and veggies (she's partial to kale). Now I see that there were other reasons behind her change in diet, and she wasn't gaining weight because of the eating, but vice versa. I wonder if Muriel's odd behavior around Victoria might have been triggered by Victoria's hormonal changes as well.

Anyway, right now mother is doing well and caring for her new litter of three. They're tiny and adorable, no bigger than mice, all of them with brown, red and white coats. It was a nice surprise, but a little worrisome too- the whole reason I bought another female was so she wouldn't get pregnant. So tomorrow I'm going back to the pet store to see if they have any ideas. I'm thinking about complaining in order to maybe get free shots for the newborns, since had I known Victoria was pregnant I would've thought twice about adopting her. After that, I'm going to wait for them to get older and more self-sufficient, then I'll send out an e-Mail to my co-workers offering them for free. Maybe they'd make good prizes for the Muriel Awards...

Mother and children are doing well, thank goodness. So everyone out there, fire up a stogie to celebrate the miracle of life, right here in my shoebox-sized apartment, where at least someone who lives here has gotten some action recently.

Exactly 6 months and 20 posts later...

2007-02-24T22:04:00.000-05:00

Two milestones are better than one, they say. Well, actually I think I'm the only one who says it, but what the hell. Maybe if I'd actually put some effort into this blog I could get 50 by Christmas. Moving on...

- I've been getting the feeling lately that all is not right with Muriel. She's always been fickle and spoiled and sort of a brat, but a lot of her less pleasant tendencies have become exacerbated of late. Whenever she's with Victoria, sooner or later Muriel is going to scare her little buddy, but while before I thought Muriel was just being a bully trying to put the smaller pig in her place, the other day I actually sat and watched them together for a while. Eventually, the strangest thing happened- without warning, Muriel started running around and around in the cage, paying no mind to where Victoria was, and even at one point actually running over Victoria's butt, causing her to start squealing. The really odd thing was that Muriel didn't seem to be angry or annoyed with Victoria, but rather did it without knowing any better. So I'm wondering whether something might actually be wrong with Muriel- could it be an eye problem, perhaps, or is it simply possible that Muriel just isn't very smart, even by guinea pig standards?

- Ever since I've started doing my own tax returns, I've gotten used to the idea of getting a fairly healthy return. To wit, I paid for the computer I'm currently typing this on with my tax return from three years ago. So you can imagine how surprised I was when I completed my tax return this afternoon and discovered that not only was I only getting back $150 from the federal government, I actually OWE the State $125 dollars. Wow, a whole $25 overall. Big whoopdie doo fuckin' ding. I re-ran all the figures, and the result was the same. I really wish I would've known that the temp agency for whom I worked for the last six months of 2006 (a) didn't take out state tax, and (b) withheld less federal tax. Now, I'm not the sort of person who plans his spring expenditures around the money he anticipates getting back from Uncle Sam, but I always liked getting a nice big tax return. It always made me feel like I was getting something back for the taxes I paid, and besides, it's not like I ever saw the money that got withheld, much less missed it. Oh well... at least next year's will be better. Right?

- After the worrying over Muriel and annoyance over my tax return, you'd think that a punctured tire would just be the king of all pissers for the day. Well, actually... you'd be wrong. Under the circumstances, this is more or less the least inconvenient flat tire I could conceivably have had. This evening I made too tight a turn and ended up clipping a curb with my right rear tire a block from my apartment. I didn't even realize that anything was wrong until I pulled in, parked, and was walking away. It was that unmistakable whistling hiss that inevitably comes from air leaking out. So I was a little anxious about it, and I contemplated whether the local Goodyear store was open on Sunday (dad and mom are both employees, and they can get me a discount). However, after a few minutes I remembered that I have a full-sized spare in the trunk that was actually one of my old tires, replaced about two years ago. I made sure that it wasn't flat (it wasn't) and then came back inside at ease with the situation, resolved to change the tire tomorrow morning, when it'll be easier to see what I'm doing. See what happens when you heed the Boy Scout motto to "Be Prepared"?

Grab Bag

2007-02-17T21:53:00.000-05:00

- So I'm at my folks' place for the weekend. Wasn't sure I'd be able to make it, given the weather this past week, but it's let up somewhat these past few days, so here I am. The only thing that worries me is how Muriel and Victoria are doing on their own. I dropped them off with a co-worker, so they're not alone, but this will be the first time they've been in the same cage for more than a few hours at a time. My big concern is that they've developed a big sister/little sister dynamic, with Muriel taking the dominant role and picking on the smaller Victoria, and given her relative lack of experience with guinea pigs, I hope my co-worker is OK with them. Then again, she has two daughters, plus some pets, so that should aid her somewhat. What am I saying- she'll be fine.

- I had a dude knock on my door this past week selling something or other. I guess I'm spoiled in that I don't have this happen to me all that often, since my apartment building is kept locked. But it worked out in an unexpected way. I opened the door and saw him there, and he gave me a kind of confused look and asked me, "uh, did I talk to you already?" And of course I responded that he had, and he moved along to the next victim. As characters are prone to saying on ARRESTED DEVELOPMENT, "that was a freebie."

- And speaking of (quasi-)mistaken identity, I was at the Jack Smith program at the Wexner Center last weekend when a loud, vocal guy (who smelled a little like an old candle) sat behind me. It would be bad enough if he was talking to the people around him, but no- this guy actually seemed to be talking to the screen. He would offer commentary on nude bodies, and at one point he actually responded to a question asked by an onscreen character. It was pretty bizarre, perhaps even more bizarre than the mentally-deficient dude who stood in front of the screen during MOULIN ROUGE and conducted the entire time. Anyway, this guy came up to me afterward and I got a little nervous. To begin with, this guy was obviously nuts, and my friends and I were sitting pretty close to him and occasionally remarking to each other about the crazy shit he was saying. Did he want to start something? But all he did was ask me if me first name was Dave. The best part is that I didn't even have to lie to make him go away. Another freebie.

Brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...

2007-02-13T22:43:00.000-05:00

For those of you who don't know, I work in the offices of a bank here in Columbus. Not a bad job- I'd much rather do this than be a teller, dealing with people face to face all day. But even behind the scenes, we're still at the mercy of our customers, and on a cold, snowy, sloppy day like today, the bank turns into a ghost town.

Consequently, they decided to close the bank early, what with the lack of business and all. But when I walked out to my car I noticed that something even less pleasant than snow had begun to fall- freezing rain. Normally, I don't mind snow or freezing rain by themselves, but freezing rain on top of snow is a pain in the ass. Seriously, it took me nearly 20 minutes to scrape the ice and snow off my windows enough for it to be drivable. And all the while being pelted from above with even more freezing rain- boy howdy, once I got home and went in, I was in for good. And in I've stayed all night, treating myself to a rare two-movie weeknight. I can only imagine how much it'll suck tomorrow morning...

Oh well- at least we're out of single digits for the time being. I just hope we've cleared up by the weekend.

(OK, maybe that was kind of a lame post. I think I just wanted an excuse to post the above pic. Got a problem with that?)

Edited 2/17 to add: The morning after I posted this entry, I actually had a morning that made me feel like the Frozen Jack seen above. The freezing rain had fallen all night, and when I walked out to my car the ice was caked on it. It took me nearly five minutes just to open the driver's side door, and then another hour to scrape off the driver's and passenger's windows, the windshield, and the back window so that I could see well enough to drive. By the time I got to work (late, obv.), I wasn't in the best of moods. Trying to amuse myself, I sent the Jack pic to some of my co-workers, saying that it was a snapshot someone had taken of me that morning. A few of them actually believed me, which just made it funnier.

I heart Pears

2007-01-30T18:36:00.000-05:00

Just this past week I came to the rather startling realization that pears, when ripe, are wicked awesome. See, I've been trying to eat more fresh fruit of late, as I'm trying to lose weight. My usual fruit of choice tends to be oranges, but due to uncharacteristically low temperatures in citrus-producing states, the prices on oranges have gotten pretty high lately. So seeing as how pears were on sale, I bought some and have been eating 2 to 3 a day ever since. It's not like I've fallen in love again or anything, since as a kid, when I was eating fresh fruit with regularity, I saw them as the dumpy stepsister of apples. I've never really liked apples either, mostly due to the texture- the flavor is good, but biting into one sends shivers up my spine, and in my younger years I always felt the same about pears. But it turns out that either (a) shipping has gotten much better over the years, or (b) my mother bought pears at the wrong time, since the pears I've gotten hooked on are a pleasure to eat, firm but tender. And juicy as hell too- you don't so much chew a really good pear as you take a bite out of it and then half-eat-half-drink it. If you don't make at least a few little slurping sounds while eating a pear, chances are you're doing it incorrectly.

Anyway, as a way to (a) try something new for dinner, and (b) integrate pears into more aspects of my diet, I decided to experiment with a new salad. So I tried the following combination:

Romaine hearts
Cucumber (for that light but unmistakable cool flavor)
Chicken breast (Grilled, then chilled- I don't like the effect of hot chicken on cold lettuce)
A small handful of dried cranberries
Half a pear, in bite-sized chunks (not too small- too many slices and you lose a lot of juice)

I placed the above ingredients in a bowl in that order, then topped with some balsamic vinaigrette and let it soak a minute or so before tossing. And lo and behold, it was actually quite tasty. The pears and the dressing complimented each other nicely, and the tartness of the cranberries gave the salad some added flair. And of course chicken goes with damn near anything, so I wasn't too worried about that. I suppose some other dressings might work with this salad, although I wouldn't recommend a sweeter one- pears don't need any help. Heck, if you're a dressing hater like Adam, I'm sure that if you were to use canned pears instead of fresh you could top the salad with the juice (provided it was actual pear juice rather than syrup). All that was missing was an extra crunch- some sliced almonds, perhaps?

Anybody else know of any good non-dessert recipes that include pears?

Updates! gasp

2007-01-27T16:29:00.000-05:00

- Q: What's cuter than a pet guinea pig?

A: Two pet guinea pigs.

That's right, I bought another guinea pig. I decided that Muriel needed another guinea pig in her life to play with, and since I do have a little room to spare in my matchbox-sized apartment, I figured that would be as good a way as any to use it up. I knew for sure that I wanted another female, seeing as how (a) males can get over-aggressive and disagreeable at times, and (b) if Muriel was going to make friends, it would be better if she didn't get pregnant in the process. Originally the plan was to find a dark-haired pig, to be Anne to her Muriel, a la TWO ENGLISH GIRLS. However, I was won over by a little one at the pet store who was white with a couple of reddish patches around her eyes. The striking thing is that the new pig's hair is quite different than Muriel's- whereas Muriel's coat is sleek and smooth, this one looks fuzzier, which makes her even softer to pet than Muriel. Because she does have red hair, I'm toying with the name Victoria, after THE RED SHOES (a name dutiful readers will remember was a name I had originally toyed with for Muriel back in the day). But we'll see if I think of anything else.

I've "introduced" them a few times today, letting them play together for a few minutes at a time in my bathtub- a neutral spot so that Muriel won't feel like maybe-Victoria is horning in on her turf, and a reasonably big enclosed space for them to play. They've gotten along fairly well thusfar, which is a relief to me. Of course, who's to say what will happen once possibly-Victoria starts feeling at home here?

- As was the case with many dorky, unpopular boys in my age bracket, I went through a Weird Al Yankovic phase in my youth. I more or less moved on after middle school, but for a while there I knew the lyrics of many of his songs by heart. I remember a time when a training class at Boy Scout summer camp got delayed due to rain and a bunch of us sat in a shelter singing Weird Al songs until it stopped- good times. Anyway, I sort of got out of touch with what Al was up to over the years, excepting the really popular stuff like "Amish Paradise." But when someone sent me the link to the pretty funny "White'n'Nerdy" video on YouTube, I sort of went on a nostalgia trip.

You know what? A lot of his classics hold up, especially in video form- it's just not as much fun listening to "Fat" or "Livin' With a Hernia" without the visuals to back them up. I also gained a much greater appreciation for the "Dare to Be Stupid" video that I didn't have back then, largely due to the fact that I hadn't yet discovered Devo. But the biggest surprise was the discovery of the relatively recent "Bob"- a Bob Dylan homage in which the lyrics are comprised entirely of palindromes. There's no way this song would've worked for me as a kid, since Dylan meant nothing to me back then, whereas he means quite a bit nowadays. And it's impossible to imagine just listening to it, since the video is a pretty close parody of the opening "Subterranean Homesick Blues" sequence of "Don't Look Back," complete with fake Allen Ginsberg at the edge of the frame, although strangely enough the chords used in the song are more reminiscent of "Bob Dylan's 115th Dream." Likewise, I don't think most people would pick up on the palindromes without Weird Al's helpful cue cards.

I've always been something of a nut for palindromes- my favorite Hangman game ever was when I was playing with some coworkers and gave the clue "this word applies to both Hannah and Bob," both of whom were playing with me at the time, and neither of whom guessed the answer. Some of the puns in "Bob" are small and obvious, like "UFO Tofu" and "A Toyota's a Toyota," but others are pretty awesome, like "may a moody baby doom a yam?" and "Do nine men interpret? 'Nine Men,' I nod." And I was giddy that the final line in the song was the classic, "go hang a salami, I'm a lasagna hog," which I wouldn't have enjoyed nearly as much were I unfamiliar with TWIN PEAKS. Anyway, fun stuff.

Here's a link, case you haven't seen it yet.

Sappy pet daddy post #1

2006-12-03T22:46:00.000-05:00

Shit, I don't remember guinea pigs being quite this rough when I was young. Of course, back then they weren't technically MY pets- I merely cared for them over school vacations. But let me tell you- they aren't as easy as I thought. I think part of the problem is that I bought Muriel when she was young, so now it looks like she's growing up and the hormones are kicking in, so she's been getting feisty in the past few weeks. After being able to gently pick her up and hold her without trouble, now she gets squirmy when I'm holding her and won't sit still when I place her on my stomach. I even dropped her once because she was squirming so much (she was about as high off the ground as my knee when it happened, so she was fine), and a few days ago when I was propping her up to inspect the hair on her belly for knots/dirt/bedding, she suddenly nipped at my hand. Plus not only has she learned the sound of the vegetable crisper where I keep the lettuce, but she now recognizes the light in the kitchen as well.

But damn is she ever cute, and that makes it all worth it. No matter that she'd rather chow down on her straw nest than any new veggies I try out on her; no matter that I bought her a special run-around ball that she can only seem to use as a toilet; no matter that I spent more at the pet store yesterday than I did during my weekly supermarket run; and no matter that she starts to rev up again just around the time I want to hit the sack. The latter just seems to be part of the deal, especially during the work week- while I'm at the office she has all day to sleep, so by the time I'm ready to sleep she isn't nearly worn out yet. And so, more than a month after I brought Muriel home, I saw her napping for the first time. She was just sprawled out there in her cage, and I was just so overcome by the cuteness of it all that I couldn't help myself. I just stared, not making a sound for fear of waking her, my face no doubt awash in a puppy dog look that, if I saw it on someone else, I'd give him a lot of shit. So there you have it- just a big softy. Try not to tell anyone.

Shit, I can only imagine how bad I'd be if I had kids...

Tech support

2006-12-03T16:56:00.000-05:00

Two or three days ago I started having trouble with my computer. Every time I try to play a media file, whether it's Windows Media or Quicktime, it comes out all jittery, like a skipping CD or DVD. I ran a full virus scan on my computer, but it didn't help. At this point in time, nothing else has been affected, and it's not just one program, since as I said both Windows Media and Quicktime files have been effective. So what could it be? I first noticed the problems when I came home from work in a day when there had been a power outage, so perhaps the blackout had an adverse effect on a piece of hardware in my computer. But I'm not computer-savvy, so I wouldn't have the slightest clue how to check. Has anyone out there had problems like this, and if so, how did you solve them?

Hard Lessons Learned, or: If I Knew Then What I Know Now is not just a Kenny Rogers song

2006-11-25T23:49:00.000-05:00

It’s strange to think that ten years ago today, I was getting ready for final exams week of my first quarter of college. This isn’t something that would normally cross my mind, except that when I went home for Thanksgiving I got to talking to a few of my younger relatives who are in the middle of the college application process, and as the first on that side of the family to go away to school, I’ve become the go-to guy for college advice.

I find this a little strange considering that I didn’t do especially well at college (though they don’t know this), but at the same time I always oblige with little nuggets of advice. Most of the time I glaze over when people offer advice to me, but the tips I’m most likely to heed tend to be those from people who’ve come by their wisdom through hard experience. In other words, if someone has ridden a greased rail to success I have little use for what they have to say, but if you’ve learned your lessons the hard way, I’m all ears.

The advice I give to prospective collegians varies depending on who I’m talking to and how well I know my audience, but the primary ideas behind what I tell them remain mostly the same. In other words, here are 11 tips I wish someone would have given me before I went away to college.

1. College is not high school. I cannot stress this enough. Most of the other advice I give is some variation on this theme, but seeing as how it took me too long to realize this myself, I feel the need to impress this idea upon everyone who seeks advice from me. It’s especially important to remember that one’s workload as a college student will be drastically greater than it was in high school, so be ready to buckle down.

2. Don’t go to college until you’re ready. While the democratization of education is mostly a good thing, it’s as true now as it was fifty years ago- college is not for everyone. If you’re not sure whether college is for you, or if twelve years of state-sanctioned education have made you reluctant to go to college right away, take a little time off. Get a job and earn some money, or if you have the resources do some traveling. Or if you want to test the waters, take a few of your core requirements at a local branch campus or community college. Not only will you be able to see whether college is for you without leaving your comfort zone (and at a lower cost than taking the full plunge), but you’ll also be able to get some of your required classes out of the way if you do decide to pursue a college education.

3. Get off on the right foot. Once you’re at college, it’s important to set the tone for your college years early on. Buckle down during your first term to get the grades you want. One of the best ways to accomplish this goal is to not over-extend yourself right off the bat. Stick with basic freshman-level courses, and don’t overload your schedule. That way you can concentrate on finding your bearings, getting into good habits, and then putting forth the effort to achieve your academic goals for your first term. And once you’ve reached these goals, you’ll have an attainable standard to live up to during your subsequent college years. Oh, and don’t sweat if you don’t get straight A’s. Very few people are able to do this in college, so it’s better to stick to a somewhat more realistic goal (3.25 at the college level is nothing to sneeze at) and work on getting the most you can out of college.

4. Get into good study habits. Don’t study where you live. Whether you’re staying at your parents’ or you move out, home has too many distractions and routines for you to properly concentrate on your studies. Better to stake out a regular spot in a study area or within the bowels of the campus library in order to fully commit yourself to absorbing the material with a minimum of distractions. If you decide to join some study groups, that’s fine too, but make sure your fellow group members are there to study rather than socialize, because if they’re not serious about studying you’d be better off by yourself.

5. Attend classes regularly. Many instructors won’t take attendance after the first few sessions, but don’t fall into the trap of thinking that attendance isn’t important. On the contrary- despite the syllabus and the out-of-class assignments, most of what you will be expected to take away from a course will be found in the class sessions. Whoever it was that said that ninety percent of life is showing up must have been a college student. In addition, any changes that are made to the course will almost certainly be made in class, and those who don’t attend may not find out about the changes until it’s too late.

6. Get plenty of sleep. Maybe you won’t have time for nine hours a night, but you should nonetheless try to be well-rested for your classes. If you nod off or zone out during a class you might as well have stayed home, and if you can’t stay awake while you’re studying you’ll just fall behind. And as finals week approaches, sleep is especially important- it may sound like a good idea to stay up all night cramming for exams, but if you aren’t alert when you’re actually taking the exam, much of what you’ve absorbed at night will evaporate in the harsh light of day. You may have to make time for short power naps during the day, which is why you must learn to…

7. Schedule everything. If you set aside a particular time in your day for everything that needs done- class, studying, travel, eating, sleeping- you’ll quickly fall into a routine, and the longer you stick to a routine the easier it’ll become. Remember to set aside a lot of time for studying (the old standby of two hours studying for every hour in class still holds). When you’re scheduling study time, break it down into smaller (say, hour-long) blocks, separated by short breaks to break the monotony. These breaks may only be for as long as it takes to go to the restroom and get a drink of water, but they can make study time much more manageable.

8. Get to know your professors and instructors. During the first few days of class, you’ll just be a name on an attendance ledger for your professors, but there’s no reason why you shouldn’t allow them to connect your name with your face. So in the first week or so of classes, before you get too thick into the course work, drop in during their office hours to introduce yourself and get acquainted. Not only does this make you stick out in their minds, but it also makes it easier for you to draw upon them as educational resources both in the immediate future (contacting them outside of class about questions feels less out-of-turn if you’ve already introduced yourself) and the more distant future (say, recommendations for grad school).

9. Get involved. Studying is important in college, for obvious reasons, but extra-curricular activities make one’s college experience much more memorable. Many college campuses have activities and groups that are similar to the ones you were involved in in high school, so if you enjoyed participating at the high school level then give them a try at college as well. And there are plenty of new activities to try, so if you have the time, why not give them a shot?

10. Pick a major early. College can be kind of scary, especially when you have no idea what you want to study. If you’re attending a university where there are lots of major options, do some research before you start classes and select one that interests you. By choosing a major, you can make a big school less intimidating, and within your major of choice you’ll have a built-in support group. And if you find that the major doesn’t suit you, you can always switch. Remember, most students nowadays are taking five or more years to graduate from college, so don’t sweat if you don’t find the right major right away.

11. Be responsible for yourself. This brings us back to tip #1. Doing well in high school is largely a matter of being able to follow directions. If you do your homework, listen, and do what you’re told, you should do just fine. College is a different ballgame. If you want to succeed, you’re pretty much on your own. If you can’t motivate yourself, no one will do it for you; if you won’t put forth the effort, it’s no one’s loss but yours. It’s only by becoming self-reliant and responsible that you can truly prepare yourself for adulthood. Just remember that you’ll be able to draw upon others for assistance and advice along the way, and don’t worry if you don’t know all the answers- the ability to ask the right people the right questions is half the battle.

New friends

2006-11-05T13:22:00.000-05:00

There are numerous reasons why I decided to get my own apartment rather than looking for a roommate. A lot of it has to do with asserting, in my mind anyway, my independence. In other words, at my age I think I'm a little too old to be sharing the rent with someone who isn't also sharing my bed. And since I'm single, that means living alone. Which I'm cool with. Frankly I can do without the hassle of getting my life tangled up with someone else with whom I'm not especially close.

All the same, it does get lonely sometimes. Coming home, nothing greeting me but the sound of the heater and a blinking answering machine (95% of the time it's telemarketers)- this is the flipside of the bachelor lifestyle. And while I have no problem with independence, it's nice to have some other life in the house.

So I went out this week and bought a guinea pig.

This wasn't exactly a rash decision. I had several guinea pigs in my youth and had enjoyed caring for them. They're easy to hold, fun to play with, and friendly. And I love the sounds they make- for my money, the cheerful squeak of a guinea pig is one of nature's most comforting sounds. I didn't even mind cleaning up after them- they're pretty low-maintenance compared to a lot of other animals. If I was going to have a pet, a guinea pig would be the obvious choice for me.

What they don't tell prospective guinea pig owners is that the other stuff- cage, bedding, food, etc.- costs a great deal more than the pig itself. Which I guess makes sense, but it came as a bit of a shock as I worked my way around the pet store. Not that I let this stop me- I wanted to get off on the right foot as a born-again guinea pig owner, and if a little sticker shock was what it took to point me in the right direction, so be it.

After some deliberation, I decided to name her Muriel. A tad unconventional for a guinea pig, perhaps, but then I've never really cared for cutesy animal names. I think that I would find it harder to really call an animal by his or her name were it something like Mittens or Muffin or what have you. Plus I've always liked the name Muriel, but it's not something I would really seriously consider naming a child since it doesn't mesh very well with my last name. But what really inspired the name was a personal assessment of favorite red-headed movie characters. Muriel is white with reddish-orange patches, so she's enough of a redhead for me. I briefly toyed with Victoria, after Moira Shearer's character in THE RED SHOES, but after thinking about TWO ENGLISH GIRLS I decided that Muriel was a much better name for my new friend. I ran the name past a few folks at work, and they agreed that it sounded good, so Muriel it is.

So how's it going so far? Pretty well. She's pretty young- maybe a couple of months old- and little bigger than a large hamster. Because of this, she scares fairly easily. I didn't take her out of the cage to hold her until a day or so after I had brought her home because I wanted to let her get used to her new surroundings first. She's pretty ravenous when it comes to lettuce, but she rarely even touches her pellet food, so I should work on being more judicious about when I give her her favorite treat. As one of my coworkers joked, if you were given the choice, wouldn't you eat dessert first?

I admit that I was a tad disappointed that she didn't squeak at all in the first few days since I brought her home, but she has started vocalizing more since I began taking her out of the cage and holding her more extensively. I like to think that the greater amount of contact has made her more comfortable in my presence. I hope she's not squeaking out of fear- the she doesn't fidget or try to escape when I'm holding her is a good sign, in my opinion. We'll see whether I can put her more at ease in the days to come.

Given (a) my lack of digital camera and (b) my difficulties in uploading pictures to my blog, I don't have any pics of Muriel to post for you. But when I do I'll try to post them here.

Accident girl update

2006-10-07T22:10:00.000-04:00

Well, that was unexpected. I post a question about whether I should ask a girl out and I end up with the most responses I've ever gotten on any post on any blog I've done to date. Granted, the unorthodox nature of the situation probably had something do with the numerous and varied responses- had I met her, say, inside the library I wouldn't even have asked- as did the multiple posts from certain visitors (hi Matt!). But anyway, thought you'd like to know what became of it.

I decided to call her up after all, and I did so on Wednesday afternoon, during a slow moment at work. When she picked up I introduced myself and told her that my car was doing just fine, so she needn't worry. So far so good, right? But once I had related the good news to her, I no longer felt compelled to ask her out. It wasn't that I was nervous- indeed, I wasn't nervous at all, which isn't like me, and maybe that's why I didn't ask. I also, for whatever reason, was no longer getting the same vibe from her that I did on Friday, which I guess makes sense too, since instead of the guy whose car she had just backed into, I was now just some guy calling her semi-randomly on the phone. Either way, I basically just gave her the news, she seemed fine about it, and then I said goodbye.

Now, is this the behavior of the prospective twentysomething single man on the dating market? No, I suppose it isn't. Matt quoted SWINGERS in his responses to my last post, essentially saying that in order to succeed with the opposite sex one needs to be strong and fierce and aggressive, but that ain't me, babe. I can't be someone I'm not just because conventional wisdom says that's the most effective course of action. In a situation like this, I'm more likely to heed the words of the hack director in MULHOLLAND DR., who said, "don't make it real until it feels real." So maybe I missed an opportunity with this girl- there'll be others, at least some of whom I'll have more in common with than a couple of scratches on our cars.

In other news, I bought my Horror Marathon ticket today. I'm stoked! So far the only titles confirmed are RABID and BLACK CHRISTMAS, but it's still two weeks away, which leaves us plenty of time for more Marathon news and a few last-minute surprises as well. Horror is the 21st and 22nd, so between that, FLAGS OF OUR FATHERS, THE PRESTIGE, and the BABY DOLL/PRETTY BABY double feature at Wexner that weekend's going to be jam-packed. I couldn't be happier.

Leave a movie early, come home with a blog entry

2006-09-29T21:13:00.000-04:00

A few days ago, Matt Zoller Seitz asked his readers what films they've walked out of in the theatre. This is a practice I've never made a habit of*, for several reasons. First, I think I have a pretty good sense of what I'll like, so most movies I pay for are at least decent. Second, there are very few completely worthless movies out there, so now that I'm no longer getting paid to watch the really wretched KING'S RANSOM-level junk I stick to movies that contain at least one or two redeeming features. And finally, most of the time that I pay for movies I'll watch two back to back, and it almost always follows that it's the first movie that sucks, and so I'll stick around anyway in order to wait for my second movie. If all else fails, I'll take a little nap- most multiplex seats are comfy enough to use for this purpose.

Naturally, there have been exceptions. I walked out of CREMASTER 3 after an hour back when it played to a sold-out house at the Wexner Center a few years ago. Having slogged through 1 and 2 earlier that week, I figured I'd give Matthew Barney one more chance, but I found the first third of 3 pretty rough going. Add to this the fact that I was pretty dead on my feet and that the old Wex seats are pretty much un-sleepable, and I had little keeping me in the theatre.

Other than that, the only times I've walked out of movies have been due to technical difficulties. And whereas I could never bring myself to ask for a refund or a pass because I walked out for quality-related reasons, I have no problem getting reimbursed when it's the theatre's fault. And though the former projectionist in me resents slightly the idea that accidents should be blamed on the theatre, the ex-manager in me is more pragmatic. People come to movies to be entertained and to watch a movie as it's supposed to be shown- clear picture and sound, and no interruption. If the theatre doesn't deliver, whether it's from something they could have controlled or not, it's their responsibility to make it right, or at least as right as they can**.

Tonight I went to see THE SCIENCE OF SLEEP at the Drexel Gateway theatre near the OSU campus. From the beginning of the film the sound was having issues. While it sometimes sounded fine, at other times the audio was muffled as though someone had submerged the speakers. My guess is that there were problems with the Dolby Digital soundtrack on the film and certain channels were cutting in and out as a result. What I saw was certainly diverting enough, but after about twenty minutes I decided to split. I informed the projectionist on duty (I hope he was grateful that a customer who sort of knew what he was talking about was complaining for a change), got a pass from the box office cashier, and left.

The evening then took a somewhat odd turn. As I was driving toward the exit of the Gateway parking garage, a car suddenly backs out into the passenger's side of my car. I didn't even see the car pulling out of the space until it had nearly hit me, and by the time I leaned on the horn, it was too late. Fortunately for all, the other car was backing out slowly so no immediate damage occurred, and I just pulled forward about twenty feet (to let the cars behind me pull around), got out, and made a quick inspection. The only thing I could see was a few small scratches***, but when you live in the city and your car is a dozen years old a few scratches are hardly cause for alarm. So when I completed my inspection and the other cars had pulled around, I walked over to the other car to inform the driver that everything was okay.

The first thing I noticed was that the other driver was more nervous than I was. This seems to be fairly normal in my experience- whenever a minor mishap transpires, more often than not the person who is to blame tends to take it more harshly than the ostensible victim. The second thing I noticed was that the driver was female, and a pretty cute one at that. Remarkably for me (given my nervousness around attractive female strangers) I kept my cool and explained that there was no real damage, but she was still pretty shaken up by the whole thing. Finally she decided to give me her telephone number in the event that I did find anything later on. I accepted, had her write the number on the ticket stub, and then we parted ways.

I've never really subscribed to the philosophy that states that everything happens for a reason. I mean, most of the time when I see some illustration of this in a movie I'll roll my eyes (hello, SIGNS!). But I couldn't help but ponder the odd turn of events tonight- first, leaving a movie, which I almost never do, and then getting into that little mishap in the garage. There's not really any "what if?" involved- being the way I am, I would have left the movie regardless of what it was, simply because I've been spoiled by good presentation too long and too often to accept subpar. Still, most nights in my life happen exactly as I expect them to, and it's kind of refreshing to have one I couldn't have predicted.

In addition, even back in the garage I was fighting an odd compulsion to ask this girl out. She was attractive, as I've already said, and of college age, which is younger than I generally go for, but certainly not too young. And I found her anxiety over the situation more than a little endearing. Of course, I resisted asking her out then and there, seeing as how it would have been (a) pretty sleazy of me to prey on her guilt over the incident, and (b) awkward conversationally to broach the subject ("yeah, don't worry, the car's fine, wanna get a drink?"). But ever since she gave me her number I've been wondering if I shouldn't try to call her up anyway. She didn't give me her name along with the number, so it would still be awkward, but much less so than it would have been right then and there. But what would I say?****

So, as I seem to be doing more and more of late, I ask you guys- should I ask her out? Is it sleazy to do something like this, or simply an unconventional way to get my foot in the door?

* Hell, I don't even leave a movie to go to the bathroom unless I really have to go, I'm not really into the movie, or I've seen it before.

** I once had a customer who became angry with me for cancelling a movie for technical reasons. I would have considered rescheduling the show and moving prints around but it would have been nigh-impossible from a logistical standpoint, and besides it was our lowest-grossing movie- but she wouldn't accept that. Come on, be reasonable in my opinion.

*** The scratches were pretty miniscule- nothing compared to the fucked-up paintjob on that same side where I scraped it against a yellow-painted concrete pylon when taking a corner too close at the Columbus Main Library, or especially compared to the place on my hatch where some dickless piece of shit keyed it.

**** Here's a possibility- "Hello, my name is Paul, and you may remember that we had a little auto-related mishap in the Gateway garage a few days ago. I've taken a closer look at the car and I just wanted to reassure you that the damage is pretty much negligible. So in case you were feeling nervous about it, don't worry. Everything is working just fine. If you have any questions or you need to talk to me for whatever reason, my number is xxx-xxxx. Hope to hear from you. Thanks a lot, bye."

My cat allergy notwithstanding...

2006-09-21T23:58:00.000-04:00

I started this blog a month or so ago to serve as a more diary-like alternative to the comparatively journalistic pieces on my movie blog. However, as film plays such a key role in my life, the two are hardly mutually exclusive. So while the film reviews/remarks of the "XXX was awesome/sucky and why" variety will still be posted over there, occasionally a film will elicit a deeper personal reaction above and beyond an aesthetic one, and such reactions will be posted here. Such was the case with Chris Marker's THE CASE OF THE GRINNING CAT (2004). I think that we can by now accept that Marker's works will almost always be awesome, and this one certainly was. But I somehow doubt that most viewers' extra-filmic responses to this were as profound and striking as mine.

Full disclosure: I've dreamed of living in Paris ever since I was young. Ever since I got into art and music and I began taking French classes back in middle school, there has always been something inviting to me about Paris. It wasn't even the romanticized "City of Light" mystique sold to audiences by Hollywood. I've never really bought into all that- seemed too tourist-y for my tastes. No, what struck me was the city's richness of culture and history, both of which Paris wears proudly on its sleeve.

Not even a spring break trip in high school could dissuade me from my dreams, although it certainly tried. For my first couple of days in Paris, I was travel-sick, not least because of the physical adjustment to the unfamiliar time schedule. But once I stopped barfing, Paris was more attractive to me than ever. While many of my classmates rushed around from landmark to landmark trying to cram in as much sightseeing as possible, I took my time to explore the city itself- exploring the streets, walking through the parks, riding the Métro, drinking in the architecture. "All that other stuff could wait," I thought. "I'll see it next time."

What THE CASE OF THE GRINNING CAT made me realize above all was that what I find so alluring about Paris isn't simply the art and the culture, but the passion that the city represents. In Paris- or Marker's version anyway- political activism is as strong as ever. Too often in the USA political involvement means letters to the newspaper or a bumper sticker reading "F the President." But lest we forget that the root word for "activist" is "active." Marker shows us hundreds of people taking to the streets to demonstrate for causes that mean a great deal to them.

As so often happens, where activism goes, so follows art. It was around the time I fell in love with Paris that I also concluded that the sixties were infinitely more awesome than the eighties or nineties, and in retrospect I'm not sure that was a coincidence. So much of the cultural contributions I consider great from the late sixties sprang directly from the social and political unrest of the period. Art doesn't exist in a vacuum, after all. Given our current climate one might think such a countercultural quake might have happened again in this country, but thusfar it hasn't- certainly not to the extent it did back then.

However, this spirit seems to be alive and well in Paris, which seems now more than ever to be the place for one goes to live passionately. And passionate living has been in short supply in my life of late. Unlike the whiny-ass heroes of THE LAST KISS who yearn to escape from a future that's staring them in the face, I can't begin to guess how my future could possibly pan out. I'm guess that this is because I have so little going on in my life in the present- obviously, or else I've have more to post about here, right? Ever since I graduated from college (five years ago... yeesh) I've been in kind of a holding pattern, waiting for something to come along and change my life. Even theoretically this is a lousy strategy- see also: Newton's First Law of Motion. So maybe a drastic change in venue, and the infusion of passion it could bring, is exactly what I need in my life.

So what's holding me back? Not too much, to be honest- no significant other, no kids, no long-term career path to speak of. I do feel the need to stay close with my family, especially my grandparents (all are still alive, and the youngest of them is 87 years old). But beyond that, it's mostly the practical concerns that worry me. To begin with, I haven't taken a French class in a decade, so I'd really need to brush up in order to be comfortable enough to move to France. This wouldn't be too big a hurdle, since I could always take evening courses and my parents have always been willing to support my educational endeavors. The trickier part for me would be finding a source of income in Paris. Sure, I might get an initial rush from living in Paris, but once that begins to wear off I'll have to eat and pay the rent.

So I beseech you, my small but devoted readership. What do I do? How do get to where I want to be? Is there anyone out there who has any experience along these lines, or who could steer me toward someone who has? My fear is that by not pursuing these I'll end up living my same lifestyle indefinitely, and years down the line I'll be bitter and frustrated by having put off my dream for too long. Even if I go to Paris and end up hating it, at least I'll have made the effort, and that in itself could be valuable. And if I love it as much as I think I will, well, all the better.

War reparations

2006-09-05T22:42:00.000-04:00

In the "do you know where your money is going?" department, a coworker sent this to me the other day:

"This was published in Money Magazine this month and has been confirmed by the IRS's hotline. Save this information for your 2006 taxes:

Little known fact: To help finance the Spanish American War, the US levied a 3% tax on long-distance phone service.

Littler known fact: Until recently you were still paying it.

Well known fact: The war ended in 1898.

After 108 years of peace with Spain, on your 2006 tax return you'll be able to claim a credit for the past three years' worth of taxes.

HOW TO COLLECT: The IRS will offer two options for claiming a refund. The standard amount, which requires NO documentation, will be around $50 (the average tax paid over the past three years). If you spend hours gabbing with someone two states away and want to claim more, scan old bills for the "Federal Excise Tax" line item. Detailed information will be available when the 2006 tax filing season begins."

Normally I'd comment, but I think this speaks for itself...

Knee-slappers #1

2006-09-02T01:11:00.000-04:00

The scene: a wire transfers department at a banking office.

Two men sit in adjoining cubicles, Wire Guy and Paul. A woman, Loan Lady, walks up to Wire Guy to inquire about a wire transfer.

Loan Lady: Has that money come in for me yet?

Wire Guy: Not yet. I’ll let you know when it does.

Loan Lady walks over to Paul.

Loan Lady: How about you? Do you have my money?

Paul: No, they don’t trust me with money. They’re afraid I’ll burn myself.

*Rimshot

Loan Lady didn’t appreciate my brand of humor. At least Wire Guy enjoyed it.

You'd think they were checks...

2006-09-02T01:10:00.000-04:00

In the almost five years I’ve been a Netflix member, I’ve only had one DVD get lost in the mail on its way to me. Considering I probably get about ten DVDs a month from them, that’s pretty good. But in the last month, all that has changed. Three DVDs they’ve mailed to me have never arrived. I reported the first one and received a replacement, but I’m reluctant to report the other two yet- three lost DVDs in one month will no doubt set off alarms in their minds- for fear they’ll suspend my account. Needless to say, I don’t want this to happen. Netflix is pretty handy, as most of you know, and I’d rather not lose it, especially over something that really isn’t fault. It’s not like I neglected to pay my bill.

What should I do about this? So far I’ve verified my new address with Netflix, I’ve inquired at the local post office, and I asked my parents whether they’ve received any of them by mistake. So far, no dice. Has anyone out there had any similar experiences involving the US Postal Service? If so, how did you handle it and did it work out in the end?

Adam V's questionnaire

2006-08-27T02:09:00.000-04:00

I wasn't called out for this one or anything, but these are sometimes fun so I took it upon myself to fill it out. Enjoy!

1. Elaborate on your default icon.
My avatar in Blogger is a recurring character from the short films of Don Hertzfeldt. My favorite use of the little cloud guy is in his Oscar™ nominated film REJECTED, in which his pleas of “my anus is bleeding!” fell on deaf ears. My AOL Instant Messenger avatar is Lee Marvin because, well, I like Lee Marvin.

2. What's your current relationship status?
Single.

3. Ever have a near-death experience?
Closest I came was when I was eight and I fell off my bike in front of a driveway just as a truck was backing out. Luckily I was shrimpy and none of the tires touched me, but hoo boy was I scared.

4. Name an obvious quality you have?
Punctuality, although some of the people I work with might offer up gentlemanly conduct.

5. What's the name of the song that's stuck in your head right now?
For most of the day it’s been alternating between “Phantom’s Theme” from PHANTOM OF THE PARADISE and Harry Nilsson’s “Moonbeam Song.” At this present moment it’s Nilsson.

6. Any celeb you would marry?
This is a tricky one- it’d be much easier if you ask me which ones I’d sleep with. But I’d have to know someone to marry her, and since I don’t know any celebs, I couldn’t offer up any names to answer this question.

7. Who will cut and paste this first?
Dunno. Maybe Jason.

8. Name someone with the same birthday as you.
Christina Ricci was born on February 12, 1980, two years after I was. Others who share my birthday include geek-fave filmmaker Darren Aronofsky (1969), MY 20TH CENTURY hottie Dorota Segda (1966), Christopher Guest stalwart John Michael Higgins (1963), fist-pumping talk-shot host Arsenio Hall (1955), wuss-rock favorite/object of ribbing in THE 40 YEAR OLD VIRGIN Michael McDonald (1952), B-movie vet Michael Ironside (1950), Doors keyboardist Ray Manzarek (1939), Celtics legend Bill Russell (1934), politically-oriented director Constantin Costa-Gavras (1933), quiz-show scandal centerpiece Charles Van Doren (1926), stodgy-ass Italian director Franco Zeffirelli (1923), EARTHQUAKE’s Lorne Greene (1915), five-star general Omar Bradley (1893), and ballet legend Anna Pavlova (1881). And oh yeah, some bearded dude named Lincoln (1809). Aren’t you glad you asked?

9. Do you have a crush on someone?
Yup.

10. Have you ever vandalized someone's private property?
I toilet-papered a few houses in high school, but that’s about it.

11. Have you ever been in a fight?
Sure, although not in a long time.

12. Have you ever sung in front of a large audience?
Yes- between high school choir, stage performances, and the Ohio State University Men’s Glee Club, I’d say I’ve done more than most people.

13. What's the first thing you notice about the opposite sex?
Adam’s answer works for me- depends on which side I see first. Although I'm partial to a girl with nice-looking hair, which can be seen from pretty much any side.

14. What do you usually order from Starbucks?
I don’t generally go to Starbucks, having sworn off caffeine years ago.

15. Have you ever hurt yourself on purpose?
While some might say that nothing we do is accidental, I’ve never made a conscious effort to cause myself pain.

16. Say something totally random about yourself.
Whenever I am served Jell-O, I prefer to eat it by slurping it through a straw. Note: this is actually not a random answer to this question, but rather my stock answer when I am asked to supply a random fact about myself. I actually met one of my ex-girlfriends this way, since it turns out she did the same thing. Wonder what happened to her…

17. Has anyone ever said you looked like a celebrity?
Back in high school I jokingly placed one of those cardboard Burger King crowns upside down on my head, and when I did this someone said I looked like John Cleese playing Lancelot in HOLY GRAIL. Although nowadays of the Pythons I’d say I favor Terry Jones most.

18. Do you wear a watch?
Almost never- copious armhair makes it uncomfortable- and when I do it tends to be a pocket watch. Odd that I’m so punctual (See #4).

19. Do you have anything pierced?
Nope.

20. Do you have any tattoos?
Nope.

21. Do you like pain?
Based on #15, #19, and #20, obviously not.

22. Do you like to shop?
Depends on what I’m shopping for. I have little patience when shopping for clothing, but I can spend hours browsing records or DVDs.

23. What was the last thing you paid for with cash?
The parking fee at the Statehouse garage after seeing CHINATOWN at the Ohio Theatre.

24. What was the last thing you paid for with a credit card?
Groceries. As I recall the last item scanned was a pork chop.

25. Who was the last person you spoke to on the phone?
The guy who took my pizza order at Rotolo’s.

26. What is on your desktop background?
The French poster for LE DAHLIA NOIR.

27. What is the background on your cell phone?
What cell phone?

28. Do you like redheads?
Depends on the redhead. Bryce Dallas Howard? Hell yes. Donny Most? Not so much.

29. Do you know any twins?
I have a pair of identical twin cousins I see a few times a year. They’re two years old now.

30. Do you have any weird relatives?
Yes, but none who are too alarming.

31. What was the last movie you watched?
DOUBLE INDEMNITY. That movie is so awesome.

32. What was the last book you read?
Bresson’s NOTES ON CINEMATOGRAPHY. Currently working on Cormac McCarthy’s BLOOD MERIDIAN.

Lost in the Supermarket #1

2006-08-26T19:36:00.000-04:00

- Fun with food-related grammar: the can for Dole Pineapple Chunks reads thusly-

Dole™
Pineapple Chunks
In Its Own Juice

Maybe my grammar isn't where it ought to be, since most of my writing lately is on a blog and all. But shouldn't it read "Pineapple Chunks in THEIR Own Juice?" The subject of the phrase, after all, is "Chunks," not "Pineapple," which merely describes what kind of chunks the can contains. It wasn't a deal-breaker for me or anything- Wong fan that I am, I bought the pineapple all the same- but it's one of those little annoyances we all encounter every once in a while. Can anyone else think of similar grocery store grammar flubs?

- Learn something new every day: In my quest to domesticate my life, I decided that it might be a good idea to put boxes of baking soda in my fridge and freezer, just like mom taught me long ago. I was planning to buy the regular boxes, but today I discovered that Arm & Hammer makes special boxes just for my specific purpose. I was taken back a bit when I noticed they cost a bit more, but as it turns out there's a reason- they put a thin piece of cloth inside the opening of the box to keep the baking soda from spilling out. OK, so they're not just ripping me off- that's a relief.

- It's not that obscure a reference, is it?: Healthy Choice frozen dinners were on sale today, so I picked up a few. As the girl at the checkout counter is scanning my items, she looks at the Healthy Choice stuff and idly asks, "you on a diet or something?"

A little rude, I thought, but I let it slide, and countered with, "no, just trying to get the frequent flyer miles."

The vacant look on her face said it all. Maybe I should have bought the pudding.

I bitch about asswipes #1

2006-08-26T19:18:00.000-04:00

So the other day I'm driving home from work, craving Chipotle. As tends to be the case with most Chipotle joints I've encountered, the one near my house has a parking lot that's too small by half, so I have to circle around until someone deigns to leave, then quickly pull in behind them before someone beats me to it. Anyway, I find a spot without having to wait too long, but since I'm in a hurry I pull in crooked and turn off the car. As I get out of the car, the middle-aged dude driving the shiny BMW convertible parked next to my 12-year-old Accord leaves the restaurant and notices that I'm parked pretty closely to him. Rather than just letting it go and grumbling about it on the way home, he looks at me smugly and says, "think you could park any closer?"

Fucker.

Keeping my cool, I offer to re-park, but he just shakes his head at me, his face awash in a holier-than-thou sneer, climbs into his car (as I said, it's a convertible) and drives away. And off I go to get my long-awaited burrito.

I know I shouldn't dwell, but even now, I can't get this dude out of my mind. Seriously, was that shit really necessary. OK, I'm sorry, I parked my jalopy within the comfort zone of his shiny toy. But so what? It's not like he even needed to open the door, since the top was down. No, he just needed to feel superior, methinks. Would he have done the same to someone driving a comparably-priced car? I somehow doubt it.

I'm not blameless in the situation. I realize that I could have I could have parked more carefully and made his day smoother. But I don't make a habit of parking poorly- it's just one of those things everyone does on occasion, this cheesedick no doubt included. One day I'll be more careful when I park. But I bet he'll always be an asshole.

How much better can ya eat? (not a CHINATOWN post)

2006-08-24T22:29:00.000-04:00

I thought it was a sick joke, this e-Mail I received today at work. You see, my current place of employment has connections with a few local concert venues, and employees can purchase advance tickets through work. This particular e-Mail announced the availability of Barbra Streisand tickets- not necessarily someone I'd see, but I imagine she would be fairly popular among some of my co-workers, many of whom are middle-aged or older.

Then I saw the prices.

The first price I saw was $152. I had to read it twice, but that was the price. As I continued reading, I expected prices to taper downward. Joke was on me, I guess... $252, $352, and $602 followed thereafter.

I wasn't sure how to react. Naturally, I wasn't personally affected by the exorbitant costs- I wasn't planning on going either way. Still, the excessiveness stirred me and confused my thoughts. Eventually, I tried to rationalize it by asking myself what cultural event I'd pay $602 to witness. It would have to be more than a simple concert, I reckon.

Perhaps a film? What filmgoing experience would warrant that price tag? How about the Museum of the Moving Image's screening of OUT 1 this fall? How much would it run me to get me to NYC to have my ass numbed and my mind blown by Rivette's 12-hour rarely-screened masterpiece? Well, last time I flew round-trip from Akron-Canton to LaGuardia for less roughly $170. So let's estimate $200. Add to that a hotel room- if I went with a friend, we could split the cost of a double, and if I did my research I could get away with spending $250 for two nights. Which leaves food, transportation, and of course the movie ticket. The ticket costs $10, and I'm sure I could manage the other two for between $100 and $150. And so, in total, that brings us in at a high estimate of $610. And while this isn't far off from the cost of a high-end Barbra ticket, consider that for my $610 I also get two air trips, two nights in a hotel, food and transportation along with my dozen hours of film. Whereas all Barbra's fans get is two hours or so of Barbra.

Which brings me back to the question posed in the title of this post. Barbra's making out like a bandit here. The concert's being held at the Schottenstein Center, which holds up to 21,000 people for concerts. Based on the listed ticket prices, I'd estimate an average of at least $250 per seat- which means a total of over $5 million. For one show. How much do you think Streisand sees? I'd guess a minimum of $2 million. And since she's doing 17 shows, that makes $34 million overall. Not too shabby, eh?

Now, I don't just blame Barbra Streisand that her tickets cost so damn much. I'm sure if she was putting on more than 17 shows they wouldn't cost so much, but there's more to this picture, I'd say. Simply put, tickets for Barbra Streisand wouldn't cost between $152 and $602 if someone in a position of power didn't think that people would pay those prices. And I have no doubt that Streisand has oodles of fans from all over who have loads of money and who would consider this a fair price to see her in concert. All I can say is, must be nice to have that kind of money. I guess I just feel sorry for her less affluent fans who would enjoy seeing her as much as their richer counterparts, but who won't be able to go because of price. I'm not sure how many people fall under that category, but there have to be some, right?

As for me, I'll be checking under my couch cushions for money, in case I actually decide to see OUT 1. Anybody interested in sharing a hotel room?

Well, I've gone and done it again...

2006-08-24T22:18:00.000-04:00

Long ago, I had a web site. It was a crappy AOL site, but it was mine, more or less. One day, I decided to cancel my AOL service (a decision I don't regret for a second), so I abandoned the site and formed a new one which I continue to run to this day. But oh no, that wasn't enough for me. I had to get in on the blogging revolution, as it were. And so I formed one so I could post some informal thoughts on movies I'd seen, and later one for sporadic non-film thoughts. Alas, due to forces beyond my control, I abandoned the original film site and folded the mini-reviews in with the non-film blog. Not that I crave order or anything, but given that the occasional casual web surfer who might happen by my blog might not care through to sift through my aimless personal ruminations to get to my slightly-less-aimless film pieces (or vice versa), I resigned myself to the necessity of a second blog. And so, voila. I can't say how often I'll update this, but thanks for reading all the same.